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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoveRafa


Excellent analysis and I was also thinking about his homosexual tendency being dormant. It can surface at a later stage too, that can be triggered by many things. Being unhappy with female partners repeatedly due to lack of mental adjustments could just be one for him. Given his complex. He has already started pointing out Gauhar on her interactions with other HMs out of jealousy, seriously? Has he forgotten that she is also a competitor in the show and they are not at home to sort out such issues?


He s clearly homophobic, there is no doubt in that it was evident in episode 1 when he made fun of Andy doing hand signs and all replying to Andy's "Hey" ... I personally did not like him after that point... And you are right it is not necessary that ppl find out about their sexual-preferences in their teenage already, it can come at any point of age. And yes the trigger can be ANYTHING... but i dont want to sound "ultimate" about this, his homophobia can be reasoned by anything... cuz if u look at him closely u will see that he actually is a very week person himself.. he will NEVER ever mess with someone who is or seems stronger than him...Armaan or Aijaz for example.. he will always express his dislike towards someone who is weaker...and in his mind a homosexual person can be that.

...his insecurity about Gauhar shows that clearly too, he is discussing with her that he doesnt like how she did lead on Aijaz, which i personally think was right as it should have been told to her... but at the same time a "strong" man would actually step up and protect the woman he cares about...(which he did in Andy's case - wrong or right tht is a different issue) ...his behavior clearly shows that he does not have enough guts to face Aijaz, that is y he is projecting his jealousy on Gauhar.. again that shows the weakness in him.. but at the same time he does feel the need to portray himself as a "strong man".. so he simply attacks women (his comments to Sophia today, for example) or homosexual men, as they r in his eyes weak...

On top of that he is a bully and even there he attacks weaker ppl... so it can b also that he has faced a lot of bullying in his childhood, which gave him the complex of being weak and not being able to speak up against stronger ppl...and now he is trying to compensate that with showing "strength" in the same way than others (bullies) showed with him earlier... so what i am trying to say is that it is not necessary that he has homosexual tendencies which he is not aware of, it can also be that he has some repressed issues from childhood which he doesnt know how to solve than "defense by offense" ... u know what i mean?

oh and the fact that he chose a partner who is so "aggressive" by nature and has a "mummy-syndrome", aslo shows that he subconsciously seeks for protection.
Edited by muskaan23 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rani-lucki

he always thinks by comparing men with women he is insulting them

he was scaring ajaz n sangram that he will make them dance to item songs
whats the big deal???
it would all be in fun
buy wearing a saree it doesn't make u a woman
the guy does have some sexuality issues


oh i agree about that... what is the big thing about men wearing women clothes specially in this field... I mean all the BIG Bollywood Actors have at one point worn female clothes: Amitabh Bachchan, SRK, Amir Khan and and and ... so y does he feel of it being a big thing?

But again only a man who is very insecure about his own sexuality will see wearing women clothes as a thread... i mean u r what u r, clothes of women will not change that... only if u have doubt about ur self this will b difficult for u!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rani-lucki

he always thinks by comparing men with women he is insulting them

he was scaring ajaz n sangram that he will make them dance to item songs
whats the big deal???
it would all be in fun
buy wearing a saree it doesn't make u a woman
the guy does have some sexuality issues


Correct, that's what I had been feeling too. That's very strongly felt by his expressions and actions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Viru_Neutrogina


Dont worry...he has studied and got degree in college also...
Wonder if sofia studied beyond the grade... 😕


Sophia has graduated from university in London. 😛😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He is homophobic it was pretty evident within the initial weeks. He's very basic with no class or sophistication. That said a lot of people will not be comfortable around homosexuals & that's their prerogative BUT the way he chooses to display his hate is uncalled for
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: muskaan23


He s clearly homophobic, there is no doubt in that it was evident in episode 1 when he made fun of Andy doing hand signs and all replying to Andy's "Hey" ... I personally did not like him after that point... And you are right it is not necessary that ppl find out about their sexual-preferences in their teenage already, it can come at any point of age. And yes the trigger can be ANYTHING... but i dont want to sound "ultimate" about this, his homophobia can be reasoned by anything... cuz if u look at him closely u will see that he actually is a very week person himself.. he will NEVER ever mess with someone who is or seems stronger than him...Armaan or Aijaz for example.. he will always express his dislike towards someone who is weaker...and in his mind a homosexual person can be that.

...his insecurity about Gauhar shows that clearly too, he is discussing with her that he doesnt like how she did lead on Aijaz, which i personally think was right as it should have been told to her... but at the same time a "strong" man would actually step up and protect the woman he cares about...(which he did in Andy's case - wrong or right tht is a different issue) ...his behavior clearly shows that he does not have enough guts to face Aijaz, that is y he is projecting his jealousy on Gauhar.. again that shows the weakness in him.. but at the same time he does feel the need to portray himself as a "strong man".. so he simply attacks women (his comments to Sophia today, for example) or homosexual men, as they r in his eyes weak...

On top of that he is a bully and even there he attacks weaker ppl... so it can b also that he has faced a lot of bullying in his childhood, which gave him the complex of being weak and not being able to speak up against stronger ppl...and now he is trying to compensate that with showing "strength" in the same way than others (bullies) showed with him earlier... so what i am trying to say is that it is not necessary that he has homosexual tendencies which he is not aware of, it can also be that he has some repressed issues from childhood which he doesnt know how to solve than "defense by offense" ... u know what i mean?

oh and the fact that he chose a partner who is so "aggressive" by nature and has a "mummy-syndrome", aslo shows that he subconsciously seeks for protection.


Pretty detail analysis and I agree, it's complex and his situation can't be just pin pointed by us without knowing his details. I guess he should immediately consult some professional and undergo some counseling, to know his problems. He may be able to correct it at this stage, but if too late his dormant tendencies might make enough damage to him. The worst would be damaging his self confidence due to that inherent inferiority, Lack of confidence due to childhood abuse or homosexual tendencies etc
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Viru_Neutrogina


Dont worry...he has studied and got degree in college also...
Wonder if sofia studied beyond the grade... 😕


Lol, just because you have a degree and you have studied, it doesn't make you intelligent or clever. Its like saying 'oh he's an actor, so he must be great at acting'...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Watch 1st episode of BB(Introductory one), he made a homophobic comment even there towards Andy.. So I even feel he is homophobic.. Not sure about cross dressing part.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gujar

He is homophobic it was pretty evident within the initial weeks. He's very basic with no class or sophistication. That said a lot of people will not be comfortable around homosexuals & that's their prerogative BUT the way he chooses to display his hate is uncalled for


Agree to the complete post. Yes he doesn't have an class or sophistication. He seems to be dumb to some extent too. If you remember the following conversation of last night episode with Gauhar. You can clearly see, how easily Gauhar is manipulating and diverting his point of discussion. He even doesn't understand or react to such nonsense from Gauhar:

"In today's episode this was the convo between Kushal and Gauhar.

Kushal: Tum meri apna ho. If anyone behaves bad with you I don't feel good and they go to my hate list. They are good or bad, I don't talk to them. But you were always talking to them, you still talk to them, you talk on their face, you greet them, you remain very normal with them. I don't do anything. For me anyone who is not nice with you, even if s/he is good or bad, I don't like him/her. But the point where I'm now, I feel that you always talk to that person. You started talking to Andy.

Gauhar: (In typical Indian Accent/Tone) I understand your intention. Apka intension is to solve everything and make sure that every one is ok... And I respect that intension and I appreciate. Which is very good. Bohooot achi baat hain...Lekin what Andy did with me in last week and a few weeks back did. Ellie ne ...(Interrupted)

Kushal: (Interrupts Gau): Andy has done everything wrong with you for last 10/11 weeks...

Gauhar: exactly...but for last three weeks... (Ek Mi..Ek Min...)

Kushal: I went out because of Andy, when I saw from out side, on 3/4th day I saw you dancing with Amdy and you also kissed Andy...(interrupted)

Gauhar: you don't need to tell me this thing, that is why...hum hai, Jo hum hai...

Kushal: I blindly trust you, I won't do that to you...

Gauhar: wohi toh mei key rahihoon "
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Viru_Neutrogina


Dont worry...he has studied and got degree in college also...
Wonder if sofia studied beyond the grade... 😕

Really ? Bachelors or Masters in Arts or business ? 😆 .. He did went to college, its an Acting school in USA... Not a proper Degree holder Like Asif (he did masters in Economics) 😊

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