No one is likeable in the house...Tanisha ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mistyi

LOL so I am guessing no one sees the positive in her...So why do I see so many people on this forum supporting her ?

Originally posted by: vivacious

Without comparing with others.. I can tell you few positive things about tanisha.

1. She is strong, stronger than any other person in the house.

Have you ever seen her crying, fainting or trying to get sympathy?

Its not easy to stay strong when all other members in the house isolated you. Wo sympathy gain karne ki koshish thak nahi ki.

Well to this I would say yes I have not seen her cry a lot of the times but no one has actually done that much to her for her to cry. Infact I did see her crying in the salman episode which to tell you the truth looked very very FAKE. But I do agree that housemates did isolate her and armaan but to tell you the truth she is fighting a mans battle who treats her like a doormat 😡 which is the most annoying thing I see on the show. She represents the sort of girls who have no self respect which being a feminist gets on my nerves.

Plus can I say the reason she actually got isolated for was that she could not see gauhar(not defending her) come into power. She could not see her as a captain when everyone actually supported tanisha when she was a captain for 2 weeks. Would you like to ellaborate on that ? <Dont take this harshly LOL I am just keeping my point out in the public>

2. Be honest to oneself, and say how many of us know cooking n other house hold chores when we are at mother's house ? She is affluent and har cheez keliye servants hai tho why would she learn cooking and other chores. Usko zarurat hi nahi hai.

Jis cheez jo tumne kabhi nahi kiya, wo sab karne ki aadat achanak se kaise aajayega ? Still she is doing dishes and all without any complaint, wo kyun nahi diktha hai ?

Agreed would have to compliment her on that and not only her but the rest of the housemates because in India everyone has a helping hand but me having lived overseas and in India and having to do all my work myself while going to uni and working part time I feel that going into a house and doing the dishes or cooking would never have been something I would like to boast about.

Another thing which I am reminded of is that when shilpa lied out clothes for appu...Andy wished he had a wife who could do something on the lines of that in the house and tanisha was like yeah I wish I had a maid with me. That seemed a bit derogratory towards women of India. Puting a wife, girl or women down in front of me just makes me want to give people a lecture on how important we girls are in the society<Sorry this is coming from bitter experiences in my life being a women/girl>

3. She admits and apologises whenever she is wrong.

4. She sticks to her friends. Understands their personality and behaves accordingly.

I've always seen her talking patiently, calmly whenever armaan is aggressive.

I agree with you she is a friend but good friendship involves showing your friend the right path not following the wrong path along with them. I know she knows that armaan is wrong but she stated "I would standby that person to the wrong or something on the lines of this"

5. She does have self respect.

There is this incident when prats comes to kamya and tells her. Don't be mad at me. U r the only friend i have.

See when you don't have any other friend, you stick to the person who you are friends with even though they bully/insult you. It doesn't mean you don't have self respect. She do have self respect and so repeatedly reminds to armaan about his behaviour towards her.

Can I just say I felt sorry for her when she did that...I think her friendship and disrespect for herself has cost her and hence she has recieved isolation from the other members in the house. Btw I don't like kamya or pratyusha either. Used to think kushal was a pretty cool cucumber but he getting involved with gauhar made him enter his school/college life and to impress he showed his stupid side.

5. She is witty

Yeah sometimes she can be cant argue with that but I find her very catty a lot of the times

6.She tried to make friends even at odd situations, when no one is liking her.

She didn't fight for armaan's breakfast for sooo long. She started the topic to clear the misunderstandings with shilpa and make friends. Now pls don't be bias and watch the episode. Its very clear she is trying to clear the misunderstandings.

I dont know why but I felt that it was more to defeat gauhar...everything she has been doing since gauhar became the captain has been some sort of competition b/w which I dont understand since in hell they both were so good to each other.

7. She is smart.

Cos, even though members isolated her. She has brains to form a group of 6.

I dont think anyone in that group is a group. Candy is the only one with them. Andy does not like gauhar and that is why he is sticking to them and sangram and elli are just his tail.

By comparing with other contestants, I can only see Tanisha , Andy , Ellie as positive people.

Actually the only positive person I see in the house is ...DRUM ROLL..."HEAVEN"...LOL appu used to be my fav who I hoped would win but now am rooting for HEAVEN.

Bad things about the positive people listed:

Andy - Since he has come back he is himself but I see him being more manipulative which okay since it is a game.

Elli - I used to like her...especially till last week and the week when she wanted oil on her roti. I hate how she is listening to conversations and trying to bitch about the situation. For instance she was like ARMAAN JEE KA GUSSA ITNA HAI BUT USNE KABHI KISI KO TOUCH NAHI KIYA BUT KUSHAL MARRA...where I was like really ? Everyone gets angry and people control anger which is a quality everyone should possess then why compare kushal to armaan ? He should not have touched andy yes but where did armaan come into all this ? And what he does with his mouth is foul enough I believe...Has she forgotten when he wanted to rip her clothes and make her do yoga? As the days are passing she is becoming a question mark to me ??????

People are not commenting in support of Tanisha in this thread cos we don't want to argue with those who already made their mind against her.

Thanks for replying back I do see what her fans might see in her but I just want to know do you guys support her attitude that she has more class than others ? Or you have accepted her with all her faults and would not see when she is wrong ? Because I do see that in threads and dont get at all.

Itna against ki ek simple 'cook' joke ko derogatory insults ki tarah lete hai instead of finding it witty and ' Grab a knife and kill tanisha threads open karte hai' . Itna against ??

Yeah true it is stupid but I was hoping this thread would help them out in understanding tanisha a bit.

Every contestant in the bigboss house has their own flaws.

No one is completely correct and no one is completely wrong.

So no need to 'hate' a particular person and open threads against him/her.

Agree with you completely and would just like to say thanks for not using names of other contestants whilst giving explanation. I hate it when I ask about one contestant and the fans of that contestant automatically think I love the other group hence I am making this post so they start abusing them and I am just like how is this even related to what I asked ?😆 But you did complete justice in this post *RESPECT*