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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Thanks all. I was beginning to feel I have touched a nerve or said something bad here. lol.

Lets clarify few things lol
1) I am not a woman hater
2) I am not a religious fanatic hating the two for wearing skimpy clothes
3) We do judge people and hence we like and dislike
4) What we should not do is judge what is between them and their God i.e. their religion
5) I too have many flaws when it comes to many things including religion.
The point was more about
a) trying to understand the mindset behind such behavior where on one hand you flirt, wear skimpy clothes and engage in behavior which is against teachings of your religion (and we can agree on that) and then at the same time you act as religious offering namaz. This could be their interpretation and all I asked was is it a common one among Indian Muslims?
When I take that and see people around me I dont see such people even in minority.
b) Once I establish that. the odds of such people coming on this show 2-3 times in 3 years would be very low.
Hence my post as to how come that is the case. Is it because Indian Muslims are different from what I observe? Is it intentional that such girls are being promoted?
Otherwise then can do whatever and it wont bother me. lol


Lets refrain from using the word act as you do not know whether they are praying from heart or acting. Regardless we are no one to judge, only Allah knows what is in their heart.

I totally understand what you are saying. However you do also have to consider the fact they they do belong to the media society which parts our way (average Muslim girl) from theirs. Hence, there daily life is very different from ours and also the way they conduct themselves. Personally, living in Canada, I have seen many Muslim girls who are very similar to Gauhar and Sana when it comes to their dresses. And my understanding of that is that to some level, parents have a hand in that as well (I am not referring to bad vs good parenting). How one dresses themselves or their children is their personal choice, and tbh I do not care cause that is not me or my child (though I do not have one). And once again, I am nobody to judge. However, I cannot dress like that, but then again its me. And as far as flirting, that's a characteristic that defers from person to person. No comments on that.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: boomiesboom

Asking is this how an average muslim girl behaves like, I didn't see you praising the religion either. Your tone did indicate that. Point being, no-one looks at Tanisha and makes a topic saying: are all Hindu women door-mats, because it's just stupid to even type that. Same way, bringing in muslim/islam in anyway when talking about Sana and Gauahar is extremely lame too.

PS what country do you live in? Don't you see your average muslim girl walking down the street every now and then?

I actually agree with the main point you're making- that is- religion has nothing to do with anything as far as the show is concerned. Our opinions on HMs should be on their attitude towards other people, not regarding how they follow their religion.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: King-Anu


Beautiful post!

Is that Karan Bandra in your avi? lol.



LOL Thank you, it is actually Barun Sobti! ( Yes, yes I am one of those people who got obsessed with a Soapie, I am not obsessed with him though :P)

On Side note I see alot of people have misunderstood your intention behind asking your question! ;-) Bigg Boss is definitely not a platform where they would like to put and retain the very proper and well behaved people ( Muslim/non Muslim). Infact even if by chance they do put people like that through. Those kind of people get eliminated very early. For example, Rageshwari from the earlier season, or even Apoorva from this season.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thanks all.

I have taken notice of suggestions and read comments offered since my last post.

I am heading for sleep. Thanks


Edited by King-Anu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhi1o1


LOL Thank you, it is actually Barun Sobti! ( Yes, yes I am one of those people who got obsessed with a Soapie, I am not obsessed with him though :P)

On Side note I see alot of people have misunderstood your intention behind asking your question! ;-) Bigg Boss is definitely not a platform where they would like to put and retain the very proper and well behaved people ( Muslim/non Muslim). Infact even if by chance they do put people like that through. Those kind of people get eliminated very early. For example, Rageshwari from the earlier season, or even Apoorva from this season.


toh tum ho barun sobti..


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Is it me or does anyone else sees similarities between these two?

1- Modern Muslim girls who despite dressing in a manner which does not represent your average Muslim dress code dont forget to remind us of Namaz timings and Subhan-Allah and all that. lol
2- Both are flirts
3- Love triangle is there
4- Supported by BigBoss and Salman Khan
5- Item number, side actor level actresses.
6- Both went on dates (basically a man bjaooing baja, dim lights and outisde food)
Was Veena Malik of the same type? I heard she flirted and had same love drama with Ashmeet
My questions are
a) Do these 2 represent average Indian Muslim girls?
b) Can they find normal people which all can relate to? As a Muslim we feel odd looking at their behavior because we dont see that in real life and I am not talking about seeing burqa wearing women. I am talking about normal urban Muslim girls.
3) Are they included for a purpose? To create taboo? To gain TRP?
4) Could it just be a conicindence?
I have watched 2 seasons and they look very similar in this regard. Please clarify from Indian point of view specially if you are Indian Muslim. Maybe I dont know much about Indian Muslims but I as a moderate Muslim sure cannot relate to Gauhar and Sana Khan. Call me biased or whatever but I am telling the truth and I am very tolerant when it comes to girls. lol.

how have you been?😊 almost lost you and today had to stalk your profile to find this post..
Nice!😃
let me stick to topic before accused of deviating..
As many pointed out before Bollywood is very liberal compared to average Indians. Exceptions are very rich or people in abject poverty. Surely its same way everywhere. Middle classes go by so-called values and try to hold onto culture.
Salman does try to promote "new" talent šŸ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: LovelyPlanet

how have you been?😊 almost lost you and today had to stalk your profile to find this post..

Nice!😃
let me stick to topic before accused of deviating..
As many pointed out before Bollywood is very liberal compared to average Indians. Exceptions are very rich or people in abject poverty. Surely its same way everywhere. Middle classes go by so-called values and try to hold onto culture.
Salman does try to promote "new" talent šŸ˜†


Hello Miss Lovely. I am fine thanks. Great to see you here. Hope you are doing great. Yes I have not seen you around as well.

I was making the point that I want to see those average ones when it comes to Muslim women. I found it odd that they pick veena, sana and now gauhar who do not represent your average person.

The show is ending. All members will leave and not sure where they will be in future. Lets listen to a song for that

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w89AHgrBMO4[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by King-Anu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
There is a huge difference in their personalities. I find Sana dumb whereas Gauhar is a shaatir drama queen.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: King-Anu

😊was mostly posting in daily discussion thread this season.. Din want my WL to go further up, its gone down though😃 thanks for my good behaviour.
members keep meeting in different forums 😊.. what are you going to watch next? otherwise we still have DM and memorable threads.. let me go and post something there..
thanks for the song.. looks like this one is your another fav
Edited by LovelyPlanet - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: LovelyPlanet


ok that is why I did not see you much. I don't follow that topic. too chatty for me. lol.

good to know that your WL went down. btw what happened to mods not banning anyone..remember they said that they were working on it lol.

i dont watch tv much so bigboss was the only forum i visit. dm i am avoiding as i dont feel like going there anymore..still lets see.

yes this is a nice song..tc

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