Gautam and Diandra- My take

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 10 years ago

A lot has been said about Gautam and Diandra.. To be honest I don't think there was any '' serious love'' kinda feeling from either side.. It started with some fun flirting that they both enjoyed because they both had a sort of attraction towards each other for wateva reasons.. Gautam is young, gutsy and flirtatous.. Diandra has a very strong personality, loves to flirt and she is the kind of person who will always stand out in a crowd, just by the way she is.. I guess that's what got them notice each other and they hit off quite well.. then the fall out happened that continued for weeks.. They both seemed frustrated of the fact they are not like they used to be and they took it out on each other , specially Diandra.. During Gautam's captaincy, he got a chance to mend ways and I think it was after the Gautam city task that they got back together.. I never thought there was any ''love'' between them even then.. Everything they did, hugging, kissing looked very much part of the same flirting they used to.. They did cross the line with the whole bathroom thing.. Where Gautam is wrong is that he didn't stop her.. Granted I always felt, that Diandra took most of initiatives, being the ''bindaas'' girl she is BUT if Gautam even subconsciously thought it was wrong, he should have politely stopped her.. When there are cameras 24x7, you can not assume things will not be shown.. It is even more wrong that you find something ''wrong'' because you are being told by 10 people that its wrong.. Instead of telling Diandra that she should stop X,Y, Z, he should have said let ''US'' try to avoid getting into situations where people question us wrongly or misinterpret things.. Diandra is a smart girl and I think what she feels for Gautam is very genuine and its not gonna change.. She has been dignified about the whole thing.. Never tried to blame Gautam for anything publicly.. I also feel this matter has been stretched a bit unnecessarily for TRP sake and both, specially Gautam, were being literally forced to accept that there is love when there actually isn't.. Having said that, I am glad this matter has been put to rest.. and I would want Gautam and Diandra to be friends like before minus all the mistakes they did in the past.. I kinda like them as a ''team'' they can be quite a force! 😊

Edited by MistyDawn - 10 years ago

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ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 10 years ago

She didn't blame Gautam because both of them were on the same page...What Gautam was doing with Diandra,Diandra also had the same thinking...Gautam said we both overdid it now we will control ourselves...Thats it...

After Salman mentioned about DJ,hinting that Diandra was low because of her ex got married I seriously have nothing to say...

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ExcuseMePlz
She didn't blame Gautam because both of them were on the same page...What Gautam was doing with Diandra,Diandra also had the same thinking...Gautam said we both overdid it now we will control ourselves...Thats it...

After Salman mentioned about DJ,hinting that Diandra was low because of her ex got married I seriously have nothing to say...

No idea who DJ is.. Thanks for clarifying.. Yes I agree.. but its easy to blame the guy and say he hurt the girl's emotion in such cases.. lot of girls do that.. But not Diandra.. I liked that.. I feel she has genuine liking for Gautam..

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FeminEra

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

No idea who DJ is.. Thanks for clarifying.. Yes I agree.. but its easy to blame the guy and say he hurt the girl's emotion in such cases.. lot of girls do that.. But not Diandra.. I liked that.. I feel she has genuine liking for Gautam..

Diandra was crying coz her ex bf DJ whosane got married recently
He dumped her after 12 years relationship and here ali upen are blaming Gautam for making her upset.
Diandra too kept quiet and blamed Gautam.

party wale din kashmera diandra se DJ ki shadi wali baat share ki tab se wo upset thi or ro rahi thi
lekin sara bill gautam pe faad diya to fool audience and make Gautam negative 😆

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ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

No idea who DJ is.. Thanks for clarifying.. Yes I agree.. but its easy to blame the guy and say he hurt the girl's emotion in such cases.. lot of girls do that.. But not Diandra.. I liked that.. I feel she has genuine liking for Gautam..

Yes she might have liked but that like can't be so strong that she will start feeling low in this much extent...So the DJ thing seems the main reason...

After todays two incidents I have got a not so good feeling about her genuinness...

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ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: melodrama

Diandra was crying coz her ex bf DJ whosane got married recently
He dumped her after 12 years relationship and here ali upen are blaming Gautam for making her upset.
Diandra too kept quiet and blamed Gautam.

party wale din kashmera diandra se DJ ki shadi wali baat share ki tab se wo upset thi or ro rahi thi
lekin sara bill gautam pe faad diya to fool audience and make Gautam negative 😆

Thats true...

What I think that when Salman mentioned that the way Gautam handled the whole situation didn't look good outside she further kept mum when Ali and Upen were discussing the whole thing...

Its a natural thing that u will feel low when u will get to know the person with whom u shared a long part of your life got married and all the other things will seem not so imortant for atleast some days...

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: melodrama

Diandra was crying coz her ex bf DJ whosane got married recently
He dumped her after 12 years relationship and here ali upen are blaming Gautam for making her upset.
Diandra too kept quiet and blamed Gautam.

party wale din kashmera diandra se DJ ki shadi wali baat share ki tab se wo upset thi or ro rahi thi
lekin sara bill gautam pe faad diya to fool audience and make Gautam negative 😆

Hmmm!!!!!! So that;s the deal. I had no idea about this DJ angle..Smart of Salman to bring that up .. The way I see it that Salman wanted to clarify that Gautam is not the sole reason for Diandra to feel low.. Even though he reprimanded him for the way he worded his concerns.. Glad Gautam didn't argue like Tanna and admitted his mistake.. But yeah , I had no clue Diandra's ex got married...that must have been upsetting..hmmm

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merrydock

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Posted: 10 years ago

the way i see it is that gautam simply got carried away with diandra personality. she is the bindass, care a damn woman, who is also quite experienced, she is easygoing and not afraid on PDA, and she is quite comfortable with touchy feely behaviour with the opposite sex. she does have any hangup and is not really into modesty.

gautam on the other hand is quite young and at an age where every experience is an adventure, and for him a bold bindass woman like diandra was an adventure. she initiated and he followed not knowing that the repercussions could put him in a bad light. he should have stopped her. but may be he was so carried away with the unabashed attention by a attractive woman and the excitement of it that he didn't think at all.

when gautam was flirting with sonali and praneet warned him he back off, may be being older then sonali he felt he was in the position to make that decision. and not go any feather and so he started spoke and spend less time with her.

on the other hand, may be with diandra he didn't want to take the responsibility of making the decision and found it easy to just follow her lead. though he was cautioned by pritam. gautam even then said that diandra was bold and bindass about the flirtation. and that if she didn't fiend any thing wrong then neither did he. not realising that in the end it would reflect badly on him a he is the man.

i'm not saying that gautam is not wrong he definitely is, nor am i saying diandra is totally wrong

what i'm saying is that both their personality combined with gautams lack of maturity and diandras lack of understanding of boundaries on a social platform has led to this

both were wrong

but i feel that after today diandra may conveniently play a victim, after she has received some sympathy from salman. and the based on the conversation between upan, ali and diandra in the bathroom, it seems that they want to pull the respect for woman card on gautam. and blame him for the situation entirely.

Edited by merrydock - 10 years ago

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: merrydock
the way i see it is that gautam simply got carried away with diandra personality. she is the bindass, care a damn woman, who is also quite experienced, she is not easygoing and not afraid on PDA, and she is quite comfortable with touchy feely attitude with men. she does have any hangup and is not really into modesty.
gautam on the other hand is quite young and at an age where every experience is an adventure, and for him a bold bindass woman like diandra was only an adventure. she initiated and he followed not knowing that the repercussions could put him in a bad light. he should have stopped her. but may be he was so carried away with the unabashed attention by a attractive woman that he didn't think at all.

when gautam was flirting with sonali and praneet warned him he back off, may be being older then sonali he felt he was in the position to make that decision.

and may be with diandra he didn't want to take the responsibility of making the decision and found it easy to just follow her lead. though he was cautioned by pritam. gautam even then said that diandra was bold and bindass about the flirtation. and that if she didn't fiend any thing wrong then neither did he. not realising that in the end it would reflect badly on him a he is the man.

i'm not saying that gautam is not wrong he definitely is, nor am i saying diandra is wrong

what i'm saying is that both their personality combined with gautams lack of maturity and diandras lack of understanding of boundaries on a social platform has led to this

both were wrong but neither can diandra conveniently play a victim, after she has received some sympathy from salman. and the based on the conversation between upan, ali and diandra in the bathroom, it seems that they want to pull the respect for woman card on gautam.

I concur with your thoughts.. I don't take Ali and Upen's opinions seriously because they are strictly playing game..I think even Diandra knows this.. I completely agree on the part that Gautam could easily take the decision to back off in Sonali's case being someowhat in charge of things there.. In Diandra's case, he despite of saying that she is getting too bindaas, dishaheen (direction less) and bold, couldn't take the decision..maybe its Diandra's personality that intimidates men.. Having said that once he got to know that this has to stop from the feedback he got in the party, he should have worded his concerns carefully..more tactfully, like he is in-front of Salman.. Call it immaturity, he sometimes has a problem of expressing his thoughts in a proper way because of which he gets mis-interpreted by many people most of the time.. I think Salman explained him very well in the end and he understood.. so all's good..

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