What’s Rahul Vaidya’s Issue With Women? - Page 5

Originally posted by: SoPunk

@Blue: Focus on his discussion with Aly immediately after he was acting to be annoyed with Nikki and threw out Jan; Rahul voluntarily went up to him & said, “I know your ego is hurt now, I will support you for captaincy but make me the next captain”. Aly even didn’t have to ask him his support. Don’t you see the voluntary surrender their? Massaging Aly’s ego is the sign of Rahul’s submission & as such dominance of Aly over him. Later also, he never questioned Aly or put pressure on him to make him the captain. He sought Aly’s help & Aly did it what he did was only to advance his own agenda to accumulate money & destroyed the game by mindless madness. What did he do for Rahul? Yet he had to get his decision approved by Aly to not to annoy him. Who’s the dominant partner here? LoL

@Red; Nothibg is a khayali pulav; the only members of his group till then were Pavitra & Nikki. Did he even discuss with them once before making a deal with Aly? No; previously also he never even wanted to even discus when Nikki or Pavitra’s name came fir captaincy discussion; but for Eijaz he had no problem even though he had the worst relationship with him. In last captaincy task he even doesn’t remember that Nikki asked for becoming a captaincy contender and so she wanted more money, although it wouldn’t hamper his captaincy contender an iota, he never gave it & in WKW he said Nikki wanted to be saved. ... there are so many other incidents to logically conclude that he doesn’t even consider that the women can be a leader or captain. You will see it if you want to see. How easily he gives away captaincy to a guy and how he even doesn’t want to discuss a woman for captaincy. It’s vivid ..

If Aly is dominant, he would have made an huge issue when Rahul didn’t declare Jasmine as captain. He would have thrashed Rahul and fought with him. Although, the nalla couple did try a lot to instigate Aly, saying “ladna padtha hain” , “what is this diplomacy”...etc., But still nothing affected him, and didn’t raise any hell with Rahul. Instead, he took out his anger on Pavithra, and really humiliated her. So, what do we see here? If anything, Rahul is the dominant one, bcoz Aly is still silent even though he’s upset with him.

As for the captaincy issues, there 101 negotiations and deals going back and forth, that I get tired dissecting it all. As far as I can see, he doesn’t have any problem with women being a captain. If so, he would have tried to trouble Kavitha and Jasmine as captains, which he didn’t do.

Originally posted by: SoPunk

What’s that word? Possible to write it full please? I’m not getting it.

Unfortunately it won’t allow me as the word they find as abusive.

It’s only 4 letter word starting with p!
(Videos online the desperate people watches!)

+1 👍🏼

I 100% agree with the post , this guy was lil entertaining in start but now I can see he’s very toxic and the sad part is I think that’s he’s basic personality and not something he’s doing to survive on the show

I don’t understand why ppl glorify him so much . Is it negligence of Bb team or his PR ? Idk 😐

But I definitely don’t see any sort of winning qualities in this one.

He has regressive mentality, filthy mouth and seems to have already thought of cards he’s gonna play in bb house , be it Nepo card or now this unnecessary proposal drama

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

+1 👍🏼

I 100% agree with the post , this guy was lil entertaining in start but now I can see he’s very toxic and the sad part is I think that’s he’s basic personality and not something he’s doing to survive on the show

I don’t understand why ppl glorify him so much . Is it negligence of Bb team or his PR ? Idk 😐

But I definitely don’t see any sort of winning qualities in this one.

He has regressive mentality, filthy mouth and seems to have already thought of cards he’s gonna play in bb house , be it Nepo card or now this unnecessary proposal drama

Bang on! 👏

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I don’t mind if you still support him or try to reason out & defend him; but saying things like that (bold above) is really questioning people’s intent & intellect without any evidence.

As far as I’m concerned, I myself and each and every post that I read here is very reasonable & logical. Even those who spoke against also tried to be reasonable & I tried to answer too. It’s really very dangerous to make such blanket statements & cover up for anyone on such issue. Every person in public sphere, showing strong evidence & symptoms of such behaviour needs a proper scrutiny. If you have any genuine evidence or reasoning to refute the allegations, please put it up.

here’s my reply to the post you are using to make generalised comment on the rest of the posters. Please put up your arguments if you like.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/154953405

honestly im disappointed in you. i actually thought you are good judge of people when we supported paras/mahira together last season.

your whole post is a blanket statement based on pure assumptions i can break it down for you if you want.

1."The only reason he befriends a woman, is only to exploit and take undue advantage"

pure assumption specially because rahul dosent believe in payback friendship and you we dont know his intent for befriending them anyway

from what i saw its nikki, pavitra who actually tried to take advantage of him. and there is nothing wrong with that this is the bigg boss house where people use each other.

2."he becomes very respectful to strong male contestants. Like he immediately became a follower of Aly"

again pure assumption. i would say they just bonded well and aly actually showed her cares for rahil when he didnt nominate him and even played for him in the raja rani task

its an friendship on equal grounds nobody is submitting to each other there.

3. "He abuses gentle or not so strong male personalities by calling them women, like he told Abhinav “Pehle Mard toh Ban”

in india its a common phrase used between guys implying be tough or be strong

im not saying i agree with that portrayal but that just how it is. i dont think he actually thinks men are above woman based on a common phrase he uses habitually

i could go on on sure you can deny my arguments but what you cant deny is your assuming most of the points you are making

they could be true or not but bashing him on that is just not fair

i dont like rubina/abhinav at all dosent mean i will start to assume stuff about him/her with no actual base whatsoever

Originally posted by: summerscent

Exactly! He has a problematic personality especially when it comes to dealing to women. In yesterday's foam task, I felt that there was this whole gang of boys who bandied together to bully and Jasmine along with them. Somehow, I feel with Aly's entry, all their surface level goons have been given a boost and they are acting like team with all their hooting, name-calling, boisterous behaviour.

With Rahul, he doesn't seem to have evolved at all. You rightly pointed out that he has these outdated perceptions of male and female roles and persona. Also, thank you for pointing out that bit about him asking people to bombard Disha with messages! I totally missed making that connection. His being proud of sliding into people's DMs, albeit a few years ago, shows that he doesn't understand personal space. Whether you are married or unattached, sending unsolicited DMs is not appreciated by people.

He felt a taunt in the word "disha" used in normal speech, but his deliberate taunts and mimicry have to be accepted.

My view is similar ..thoda bully, thoda bad language. He was my second choice after Nikki ..but after couple of incidents nah

One was Raja Rani the way he behaved with Ruby

The way he continues to mock Nikki since she is kindof alone

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

I think it means p 0 * n

Well ok, the last alphabet would have helped. Thanks

but I can’t believe he was defending it!! No wonder an avid p**n watcher would disrespect women bcoz that’s his only knowledge about women.

Originally posted by: Equine

If Aly is dominant, he would have made an huge issue when Rahul didn’t declare Jasmine as captain. He would have thrashed Rahul and fought with him. Although, the nalla couple did try a lot to instigate Aly, saying “ladna padtha hain” , “what is this diplomacy”...etc., But still nothing affected him, and didn’t raise any hell with Rahul. Instead, he took out his anger on Pavithra, and really humiliated her. So, what do we see here? If anything, Rahul is the dominant one, bcoz Aly is still silent even though he’s upset with him.

As for the captaincy issues, there 101 negotiations and deals going back and forth, that I get tired dissecting it all. As far as I can see, he doesn’t have any problem with women being a captain. If so, he would have tried to trouble Kavitha and Jasmine as captains, which he didn’t do.

Aly actually did show his dominance in that discussion with Rahul. Rahul never had to discuss his decision before hand, but he did bcoz Aly is dominant. The way Rahul aligned with him by unilaterally accepting him to be captain first to massage his ego puts him in dominant position. So Aly’s immediate reaction was “Threatening Rahul of future” Yet Rahul didn’t get angry but took it silently. But he later gave an Avenue to Aly to retract his statement of future retaliation; by adding when he will be Sanchalak. Aly found it convenient to keep it like that, bcoz he didn’t want to give away how he will retaliate. Be sure he will go after Rahul whenever he will get chance in future.

So it was not necessary for Aly to be angry with him but it should have been Rahul who should have been angry for threatening him despite giving so much respect to Aly that he is getting his decision vetted from him. If you’re not blinded by your love for Rahul, you will see clearly who’s pampering whom and who’s being dominant. The fact that there was a violation of rule so it wasn’t wise for Aly to make it an issue as RubiNav suggested. On top RubiNav doesn’t know that Rahul has already got his approval for the decision.

Kavita was appointed by BB & then he was not in a position to make any issue bcoz he was in RedZone

When jasmine was captain then he already has established a good relation with her & by the time he cane out of RedZone Aly cane in, so there was nothing he could have done.

You can’t conveniently forget what happened in that captaincy task. He had very good relation with Pavitra but he never discussed with Pavitra that he has already committed to Aly. He Infact surrendered, he was mesmerised by Aly’s personality so much that he left all the women team mates out of any equation & surrendered to Aly. That’s a mindset I picked up pretty accurately.

RahulVaidya - "Mard hu, ladka hu toh har ladki ko msg karuga. Ek ko nahi 100 ko karuga. Tu kar nahi sakta shadi shuda jo hai"

Does he knows wat he is saying?

2) I know your ego is hurt

These statements are proof of his regressive thinking.

Boys who love their mother and respect............usually respects woman.

Strong mother's sons are gentle man , respects woman.

Woman who get honor at home raises sons who respects woman.

When a boy grows up he copies his father...........sp when mother obeys everything his father do or say.

When they see any woman who is not like their mother they think that woman is a charcterless or doing "Dadagiri" and he can behave any way he likes with her. Sp strong woman means uske pati is a "Namard". As according to him slapping a woman every time she speaks is "Mardaani".

Well these guys go out too and love only those frnds who are trashy. As gentle men or women will not be a frnd of such mentality guy.

He learns to respect woman from social media. Respects only those kind of gals who are trashy just like him. Well these galz are available any way you call them or any bad remark you do to them.

Exception ....those guyz also disrespects women who were dumped by women all through their life.

+Namrads also disrespects woman to show mardani.