Originally posted by: AlexP927
@aekiel and @cute_girl everything you mentioned about maya happened before the wedding. BEFORE they got married. One thing was very clear. maya loved arjun and wanted him. Her saying to jhanvi that he has to come her only one day is evidence to that. She loved arjun beyhadh n she was going to make him her husband. Their love story isn't your normal story that goes through some cheesy problems and then they get married dramatically n ta-da...happy ending...the whole premise of the show since the first promo has been about them n their marriage n abt beyhadh pyaar. Maya is very possessive of arjun n she dsnt want to lose the one man who truly loved her...n she is weird bcuz of her past, she does things that are not normal, thats her character sketch. She does n says things that are not right n she has reasons but these other sane people lik VM n saanjh, they r normal right? they havnt had a traumatizing childhood experience on the contrary they had pretty happy lives. why do they behave so ridiculously?
that pandit also says that maya's love is without any limits n its also her weakness to control which she can evn go to the lengths of harming arjun's life however he also says that this same love can take their relation to the depths of the ocean n yet make it reach to the highest point in the sky if it is guided. what did VM do? she only heard the scary part of it but ignored his advice that she cant stoptheir wedding...that she cant do anything n arjun will have to do it himself...n so far i havent seen arjun do anything. n VM had gotten over the glass thing n agreed to the wedding for her son, but she listened to ashwin knowing full well wat all he did to maya,but the man who jus kidnapped you has meaning in his words but the woman who jus married ur son n has been trying to only be nice to you is the devil...👏 very nice.
Maya tried to genuinely be nice after killing ashwin, after the wedding was complete. After she decided to leave her past along with all her mistakes behind, becoming maya arjun sharma but did VM let her? after they got married she cudv atleast faked it for a while n seen if maya ws truly changing but no...this woman ddnt evn give her a chance.
n ram prasad n ria aren't going around calling arjun n saanjh names are they? they only spoke in court wen asked by law, but VM was doing that to maya wen all maya ws doin at the time ws being nice, even if it was pretend, she was trying. nd the vada-pav incident happened evn bfr maya proposed.
look at the timeline of things please 😊
It's also the Maya before the wedding that's got married to Arjun. Nobody's character can change in a day, it doesn't happen that way.
Her thought process pre the wedding indicated her potential path after it.
If someone you disliked were to suddenly act all goody goody with you, would you buy it immediately? Not, you wait and watch cautiously, and put in a test or two (if you can), to see the depth of the change.
Maya's process is simple- you agree to the way she wants things, or you're out of the way. There is no middle path. It's all about control, and I'd maintain that her "love" for Arjun wasn't love, but an obsession arising out of her need to control.
Personally, I don't believe the "whole she tried her best to get accepted, but VM didn't, so what could poor Maya do" bit. The whole MAS thing was an attempt from her side to portray herself as the victim in front of her husband, who would then proceed to automatically distance himself from his mother and brother, and she would then have him all to herself.
My reasons for it- no one in love seeks to destroy her husband's relationships. There was nothing that Ayaan did wrong in front of her in S1, but she chose to cut him off too. That doesn't sound like the attempt of someone who wants to be whole heartedly accepted, does it?
She knows VM wouldn't accept her immediately, so shouldn't be she have been prepared for a longer struggle for acceptance? That's why I said cursory efforts (Don't think it was a genuine effort, but let's give her the benefit of doubt) wouldn't be enough. Even when VM threw the garbage (a mistake I agree), that scene was preceded by Maya hurting herself using the door and portraying to Saanjh and Ayaan that VM did it.
Are those the signs of a person who genuinely wants to change? If she intended to change, it should've been a full blooded effort. Two days of effort doesn't erase 25 years of your past life- if you fall back into it so easily, it indicates the effort wasn't there in the first place- the desire wasn't there. Look at what she did to make Arjun hers- did she put the same effort in to get VM on her side?
Edited by aekiel - 8 years ago
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