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Mandy

@BeyondHorizon

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

There are times when I have empathised with Saanjh's character but for most part she has been annoying. Not bcoz she is the kebab mein haddi between ArYa but she is plain interfering. Agreed Maya manipulated the situation to her advantage but Saanjh is so intelligent that she came to the conclusion right away 😆 she had bhaang but even before that it was annoying when she tried to come between a man and wife. I agree u r a best friend but u shd know where to draw the line in ur relationship. Ur friend also needs to spend quality time with his wife and u cannot be his no one priority all the time. She continuously keeps throwing her friendship on Maya's face n how is Maya supposed to react? Yes Maya is extreme and resorts to crazy means to get what she wants but even a normal woman would have been annoyed with Saanjh and Arjun's closeness.

Funny part is I wonder how Arjun landed up as the bone of contention between two gorgeous women? 🤣 He deserves neither.

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: whitewitch

Nobody against sanj too.
People are against sanj ruining her life for a man like arjun.
If you are in place of suman do you like your daughter to associate a man like Arjuna.
Let maya be unhealed. But what about Sanju.
When she realize her equation with arjun changed she had a life that contains a loving parents and brother and good career.
So you don't want her to move on her life

I have no issues but all I m saying she isn't characterless.

Edited by tanvismile - 8 years ago

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CutiepieAD

@CutiepieAD

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

I agree Saanjh has been badly bashed since last few episodes and personally even I am not liking it.

But what she did can't be justified either. Maya was pregnant or not, it's all together a different issue, but according to Saanjh she was pregnant. So wasn't it wrong to pull a pregnant lady nd make her fall. Moreover who told her that Maya had put bhaang in her drinks? How come she came to conclusion without having evidence.

About the dance nd the kiss, suman has already told her many times to stay away from Arjun but she can't stop.. She is kind of tempted with Arjun. I am not saying she has any mal intensions but subconsciously she wants Arjun, that's why when she's under the influence of bhaang , she danced so intimately with him.

Maya told Ganesha that she never wanted to separate Sajun till she saw him hugging her, when her hands were burnt. But after that she couldn't take it. Maya being a sociopath resorts to manipulations (which aren't justified) but situations are forcing her to do so.

I am not blindly supporting Maya here, she's a flawed character n we all have tuned to the show to see her beyhadh pagalpan for Arjun. But CVs themselves try to justify her character, by showing Vandana, Arjun and Saanjh in a grey light.

About Maya being pregnant and removing Ganesha.

I chose to believe it was fake pregnancy. Because if the CVs want me to believe it was real then I can't connect to Maya's character anymore. Having lost a baby, instead of crying, she is happy to have Arjun all for her, is not the Maya whom I have liked.. So I want to believe it was planned nd yes she trapped Saanjh nd broke their friendship due to her obvious insecurities.

Choosing Arjun over Ganesha was the biggest mistake made by her, And idiot like Arjun will obviously betray her nd she will have to go back to the same Ganesh one day..

If Saanjh today paid for her PDA with Arjun, Maya will also pay if she did something wrong. Since things haven't been clarified, we need to see how the story unfolds.

Edited by aditi97 - 8 years ago

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

@tanvi the problem is good means take any trash from MIL and be obedient. Let how much ever the MIL throw rubbish fall at her feet, do the work or sit in the corner and cry. Then you are an ideal good DIL. Maya is not Bhabo's Sandhya beendini, who is an IPS officer for namesake and tolerate domestic violence at home.

She tried, when she didnt get positive response she manipulated. Even normal person would do some sort of manipulation for their own sanity. Though the level at which Maya goes is insane, as a person even I dont take bullshit like Vandana does sitting.

But it will be mostly direct talk to avoid the issue. If that doesnt happen royal ignore is the treatment I give. Also I dont think I was ever an idiot like Maya to go for a man like Arjun. No I dont remember even having friends like Arjun. Though I can connect with Ayan as he seems like some of my good friends.

@aditi I also wanted it to be fake preggy. But then Maya's question to Ganesha " Why did you give happiness if you have to take it away" made me think otherwise and before Ganesha could answer Arjun answers her Ganesha is a stone. I felt listening to Arjun she too became stone, killing the emotions inside her. That's why she did Ganesh visarjan. Maya with emotions is now in the depth of water with Ganesha. That's why I felt sad. She should have listened to Ganesha answer not Arjun answer. T

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@tanvi the problem is good means take any trash from MIL and be obedient. Let how much ever the MIL throw rubbish fall at her feet, do the work or sit in the corner and cry. Then you are an ideal good DIL. Maya is not Bhabo's Sandhya beendini, who is an IPS officer for namesake and tolerate domestic violence at home.
She tried, when she didnt get positive response she manipulated. Even normal person would do some sort of manipulation for their own sanity. Though the level at which Maya goes is insane, as a person even I dont take bullshit like Vandana does sitting.

But it will be mostly direct talk to avoid the issue. If that doesnt happen royal ignore is the treatment I give. Also I dont think I was ever an idiot like Maya to go for a man like Arjun. No I dont remember even having friends like Arjun. Though I can connect with Ayan as he seems like some of my good friends.

@aditi I also wanted it to be fake preggy. But then Maya's question to Ganesha " Why did you give happiness if you have to take it away" made me think otherwise and before Ganesha could answer Arjun answers her Ganesha is a stone. I felt listening to Arjun she too became stone, killing the emotions inside her. That's why she did Ganesh visarjan. Maya with emotions is now in the depth of water with Ganesha. That's why I felt sad. She should have listened to Ganesha answer not Arjun answer. T

@shruthi I agree with you. Oppressing a person and getting oppressed by the person are wrong. In fact, getting oppressed is a bigger crime than oppressing. That is what Mahatma Gandhi and Bhagwat Geeta says. Vandana was the oppressor whereas Maya was getting oppressed by her continuous taunts. She had tolerated to the extent of her capacity. Any woman in Maya's place would file a domestic violence case or complain to the police if Vandana kicks her out of the house. As for Arjun was fine till he was going to be a future father (till it is proved that pregnancy is fake). If Maya had talked to arjun about what happened in the restaurant, he would immediately know that she is keeping an eye on him so & it would make the matters worse. Hence she resorted to manipulations. I wish her pregnancy should be fake as Arjun does not deserve a child after his goof up with Saanjh. On the other hand, Maya is supposed to be intelligent but going for the person like Arjun is the biggest mistake. However, it was not completely her fault as Jhanvi told Maya to give a chance to herself by confessing her feelings to him just as Prem & Suman asked Saanjh to confess her feelings to Arjun.

Maya shouldn't have put Ganesha for visarjan. She chose Arjun over Ganesha. However, that was in the heat of the moment. But if things don't work out for her she will eventually go back to Ganesha.

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CutiepieAD

@CutiepieAD

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@tanvi the problem is good means take any trash from MIL and be obedient. Let how much ever the MIL throw rubbish fall at her feet, do the work or sit in the corner and cry. Then you are an ideal good DIL. Maya is not Bhabo's Sandhya beendini, who is an IPS officer for namesake and tolerate domestic violence at home.
She tried, when she didnt get positive response she manipulated. Even normal person would do some sort of manipulation for their own sanity. Though the level at which Maya goes is insane, as a person even I dont take bullshit like Vandana does sitting.

But it will be mostly direct talk to avoid the issue. If that doesnt happen royal ignore is the treatment I give. Also I dont think I was ever an idiot like Maya to go for a man like Arjun. No I dont remember even having friends like Arjun. Though I can connect with Ayan as he seems like some of my good friends.

@aditi I also wanted it to be fake preggy. But then Maya's question to Ganesha " Why did you give happiness if you have to take it away" made me think otherwise and before Ganesha could answer Arjun answers her Ganesha is a stone. I felt listening to Arjun she too became stone, killing the emotions inside her. That's why she did Ganesh visarjan. Maya with emotions is now in the depth of water with Ganesha. That's why I felt sad. She should have listened to Ganesha answer not Arjun answer. T

Shruthi di as I said they have left all options open... It depends on how we interpret or what we want to believe.

Maya never looked pregnant to me, she wasn't that happy, the way Arjun was... Neither her pain of loss was shown properly like Arjun's was shown.

Even if I ignore all medical logics, still it won't make me connect to Maya if she cares more abt having Arjun all for herself than losing her baby, as if her baby was really there, she would have loved him like anything and if she lost it she would have gone crazy in pain.. like she became when Jhanvi was in hospital, or if she feels she's abt to lose Arjun.

The scene which u mentioned I see it in a different way. She remembers her earnest prayer to Ganesha (when she didn't manipulate) nd then she starts with her drama in front of Arjun so that he asks Ganesha to leave.. and finally even God won't be btw them. And then finally her tear when Ganesha goes. That was genuine one.

Infact her last shot while hugging Arjun revealed the whole drama for me.

But since nothing is clear, we are entitled have any opinion about it.

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anjaanichudi

@anjaanichudi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@tanvi the problem is good means take any trash from MIL and be obedient. Let how much ever the MIL throw rubbish fall at her feet, do the work or sit in the corner and cry. Then you are an ideal good DIL. Maya is not Bhabo's Sandhya beendini, who is an IPS officer for namesake and tolerate domestic violence at home.
She tried, when she didnt get positive response she manipulated. Even normal person would do some sort of manipulation for their own sanity. Though the level at which Maya goes is insane, as a person even I dont take bullshit like Vandana does sitting.

But it will be mostly direct talk to avoid the issue. If that doesnt happen royal ignore is the treatment I give. Also I dont think I was ever an idiot like Maya to go for a man like Arjun. No I dont remember even having friends like Arjun. Though I can connect with Ayan as he seems like some of my good friends.

@aditi I also wanted it to be fake preggy. But then Maya's question to Ganesha " Why did you give happiness if you have to take it away" made me think otherwise and before Ganesha could answer Arjun answers her Ganesha is a stone. I felt listening to Arjun she too became stone, killing the emotions inside her. That's why she did Ganesh visarjan. Maya with emotions is now in the depth of water with Ganesha. That's why I felt sad. She should have listened to Ganesha answer not Arjun answer. T

@Bold...Is it a possibility dt she was talking abt family n friends? After marriage she wanted to make Arjun's family n friends as hers, but she had to loose dm all.

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bookworm2

@bookworm2

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

I watched the episode today.

I felt what saanjh asked Maya was perfect. Maya did plan all this, she is the one who got saanjh drunk. She knew how close S and Arjun were. She put those bad thoughts in her moms mind.

I feel she made up the pregnancy too. She always planned to do this, that is put the blame of losing her baby due to Saanjh. It just happened now. I feel Maya tripped by herself and that poor Saanjh thought it was because of her.
saanjh apologizes even though she had done something unintentionally, But it is perfectly OK even though Maya plans every actions of hers.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

@nietzy it can also be that. Because she really wished for a family.

@aditi it is a myth that woman will feel over the top on learning about pregnancy. Need not be. Especially when they become preggy immediately after marriage. I have my own friend who had frankly told me she doesnt feel elated on being pregnant. Yes it is there so she will carry it. Then there was other who could never let go of the disappointment of missed onsite chance because of unexpected pregnancy and throughout pregnancy she lamented why it had to happen and topple her US plans.So Maya not jumping for moon doesnt mean it is fake. But yes I wish it is fake so that the things are balanced.

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gaymsk

@gaymsk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@Actomyo:

Yes Maya should have confronted the two of them. But that is NOT how Maya operates. With her employees she will tell them what they did wrong and fire them. With her Mother she will threaten and use emotional blackmail to stop her. But with Arjun? I think she is still testing the water! She would NEVER do the mistake of telling Arjun to his face that he needs to stop seeing Saanjh.

I also think people are being a bit unfair and only seeing that Maya wanted them separated. They don't remember Maya actually put out Saanjh'a dupatta fire with her own hands. She had actually started to like Saanjh. Like she confessed to Lord Ganesha, their friendship always bothered her, but she learnt to live with it. She had actually made peace with it when Saanjh accepted her. But then Arjun and Saanjh meet on the sly and then they exclude her and even do PDA in front of her.

Maya not being a "regular" woman decides to play a Game to seperate them. They didn't understand her tolerance and mistook it for acceptance of their innappropriate friendship. So she resorted to her trickery. She's not RIGHT by any means. But if you understand her character you will understand why she did it. Just like Jennifer said in her interview. If you understand Maya then you get her. That is why her character is so popular despite being a sociopath. She is still more likeable than so called Good people Saanjh Arjun and Vandana! Arjun I am not even sure? Is he good or is he just greedy?

r u justifying maya's cowardliness by saying her character is like det? den why u have prob wid saanjh ,by dis logic her behavior is also justify bcs its her charecter ,over friendly wid his bff n ayaan

pagal ki jagah pagalkhane mai hoti hai , maya ko khula choda dekha kya haal huya , arjun ki life karab kar di , maya is a psycho she need a pagalkhana , apne jeso ke saath hi khush rahegi

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