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SRJKiShraddha

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I don't think Saanjh is mahan like other daily soap leads , she won't do that scarifice for every tom dick n harry . Her love her scarifice for arjun is beyhadh , tag line beyhadh in every ckt is highlighted.

There are lots of unrealistic things , in real life a guy would be never that ignorant to realise feelings of girl for him . Even if he was not interested he would have realised n told her her his pov .

My best frn was in love with a guy was my common frn , he had feelings for other girl n was waiting that my frn will propose n he will reject her politely. He used indirect methods like flirting with other girls infront of my frn so she can hate him. No one had to tell him that she loves him . One day he spoke to me , i told him u don't love my frn it's ok ur choice, but don't wait till she will propose, she might never u speak n tell her the truth . This indirect method , prolonged dilemma will hurt her more. N he spoke to her , she could move on n find her true love .

The harsh thruth is saanjh has saved arjun so manytyms dupptta scene. He onces say to maya that saanjh is like his taviz who protects him . But he never proposed her like what happened in maya's case , maya was new in his life , sumone who could give him luxry n pampered him . Sum1 who didn't not bother to tell what is right or wrong but he is always right so impulsively he falls in love whereas he never understood the importance of what Saanjh did to him.

It's unrealistic if marriage can work by using manipulations. Spying , fake accident, emotional blackmail , by buying love with gifts etc.

It's unrealistic that any girl will fall for guy when he has bff like dusky

I wonder y he broke eith hus ex go

Edited by SaurabhKiRadha - 8 years ago

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pomegranate

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha
I don't think Saanjh is mahan like other daily soap leads , she won't do that scarifice for every tom dick n harry . Her love her scarifice for arjun is beyhadh , tag line beyhadh in every ckt is highlighted.
There are lots of unrealistic things , in real life a guy would be never that ignorant to realise feelings of girl for him . Even if he was not interested he would have realised n told her her his pov .

My best frn was in love with a guy was my common frn , he had feelings for other girl n was waiting that my frn will propose n he will reject her politely. He used indirect methods like flirting with other girls infront of my frn so she can hate him. No one had to tell him that she loves him . One day he spoke to me , i told him u don't love my frn it's ok ur choice, but don't wait till she will propose, she might never u speak n tell her the truth . This indirect method , prolonged dilemma will hurt her more. N he spoke to her , she could move on n find her true love .

The harsh thruth is saanjh has saved arjun so manytyms dupptta scene. He onces say to maya that saanjh is like his taviz who protects him . But he never proposed her like what happened in maya's case , maya was new in his life , sumone who could give him luxry n pampered him . Sum1 who didn't not bother to tell what is right or wrong but he is always right so impulsively he falls in love whereas he never understood the importance of what Saanjh did to him.

Arjun falling for maya and not realizing saanjh's importance are two different things, both can co exist. For better or worse, maya treats him like an adult whereas saanjh's patronizes him. I'm not comparing but only saying that a 26 year old won't like being constantly hounded and scolded by anyone. Arjun is attracted towards maya for what she stands for, but also they have connected on a deeper level- it is odd how people don't like to admit it. Even I'm not saying it is love, it is attraction but even attraction does not only happen on money and looks- there has to be some common ground there. But I agree that Arjun should realize saanjh's' importance

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SRJKiShraddha

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: pomegranate

Arjun falling for maya and not realizing saanjh's importance are two different things, both can co exist. For better or worse, maya treats him like an adult whereas saanjh's patronizes him. I'm not comparing but only saying that a 26 year old won't like being constantly hounded and scolded by anyone. Arjun is attracted towards maya for what she stands for, but also they have connected on a deeper level- it is odd how people don't like to admit it. Even I'm not saying it is love, it is attraction but even attraction does not only happen on money and looks- there has to be some common ground there. But I agree that Arjun should realize saanjh's' importance

I am not commenting any thing on arjun n maya 's realtionship, only future will tell if ut is right or wrong.

I am saying arjun never gave importance to what Saanjh did . He never valued her when she saved his life coz it was rroutine for him.

I am saying saanjh is not typical positive lead , otherwise i would have ignored her like gopi/swara/akshara/simar. Her love for arjun is that strong that she can do extreme scarifice . If this is unrealistic than there are plenty more things unrealistic.

About coexisting thing i don't think so , i even doubt full if arjun can allow saanjh with other guy . But tym will tell.

Edited by SaurabhKiRadha - 8 years ago

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

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@Radha I very well people like Arjun who doesnt realize the other has feelings for him. My friend had broken down when one of the other members of our gang proposed her. Yes except her we all knew he had feelings for her 😆😆, but she didnt know the complete 3 years.

After that it was very tough for her. She felt betrayed, guilty and what not because she had trusted him so much like a friend.

It created rifts in our group with me siding with the girl and my BF and her love siding with the guy telling what is wrong with her, why cant she accept him. Isnt he good. It is just that she dont want to accept.

I discussed with my friend whether that is the case and she strongly told no. I dont feel that way about him and I cant feel that way about him. Why is everyone expecting me to say yes to the guy. Why everyone finding fault with me.

Same is happening with Arjun also. Everyone wants him to be with Saanjh. But he has proposed Maya. He feels a connect to her.

A marriage cannot work on spying and blackmail, but neither can it work on emotional blackmail and bondage. It is finally Arjun's choice what he wants.

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pomegranate

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@Radha I very well people like Arjun who doesnt realize the other has feelings for him. My friend had broken down when one of the other members of our gang proposed her. Yes except her we all knew he had feelings for her 😆😆, but she didnt know the complete 3 years.
After that it was very tough for her. She felt betrayed, guilty and what not because she had trusted him so much like a friend.
It created rifts in our group with me siding with the girl and my BF and her love siding with the guy telling what is wrong with her, why cant she accept him. Isnt he good. It is just that she dont want to accept.
I discussed with my friend whether that is the case and she strongly told no. I dont feel that way about him and I cant feel that way about him. Why is everyone expecting me to say yes to the guy. Why everyone finding fault with me.

Same is happening with Arjun also. Everyone wants him to be with Saanjh. But he has proposed Maya. He feels a connect to her.

A marriage cannot work on spying and blackmail, but neither can it work on emotional blackmail and bondage. It is finally Arjun's choice what he wants.

Most Guys are not good with reading emotions, and women complain " why should I tell him everything, he should know what to do" except, men can't. they are times awful at reading emotions. Arjun was too involved in his world to realize saanjh is behaving strange lately, but did saanjh ever understand that he does not feel anything for her because it was so obvious in his body language and behaviour. so much for being best friends, these two are so focused in their own world, that they cannot seem to understand one another. Arjun took advantage of her but I always said, people will disrespect you and take you for granted as long as you allow them to. Saanjh was so in love with arjun that she did could not even tell him to cut it out. Instead, she did his shopping, woke him up and packed his bag-even a wife does not do such things these days. Both went wrong in many places.

I can't say much about arjun and maya, only waiting to see how their relationship develops from here.

Edited by pomegranate - 8 years ago

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poppinss

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Beyhad the title means extreme. Extreme is Maya and Maya is Jen. She is the life of this show.

I strongly believe however the story goes it will revolve around her and justifying her every act, she I think will eventually go towards an Ishita of YHM with a bit of grey.

Saanjh's happiness is Arjun. She gave it to Maya. If Saanjh takes him back then she breaks her promise to God. Symbolism 😊. To be taken very seriously in Indian shows 😊.

Saanjh will not be happy with what would not be really hers... viz. Arjun. He will not be Saanjh's duffer but Maya's Arj. Saanjh I am sure never wanted Maya's Arjun.

Every relationship goes through trust and adjustment issues. This I think is what will come into play now with more thrill and enigma. Maya and Arjun went from step 1 to 10. Time for them to cover the remaining steps and understand each other. Saanjh is for fulfilling the TRP aunties fetishes.. hehe.

Pasting the above from what I posted elsewhere.

Arjun, needs to know what he really is and what he wants. And knowingly or unknowingly it has only been Maya who has been peeling Arjun's layers and viceversa. Inspite of Saanjh being with him for donkeys years... Arjun did not change a tad. The question now will be how far Maya and Arjun would be able to change... and I think instead of Saanjh being a protection to Arjun will be more of a barrier. Who unkowingly will be instrumental in ArYa separation.

Saanjh's father said that to Suman a few episodes back that he feels Saanjh is the one that he fears will be coming between Maya and Arjun... that I think might just come true. Saanjh in her bias might soon try to do things to protect Arjun.

The question will be whether Arjun will need any protection at all? Maya I feel will change when she starts seeing the good in others. Maybe Arjun's family and even Saanjh. The time when she stands to loose all that will be when she would want to see light...

Edited by poppinss - 8 years ago

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SRJKiShraddha

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

@shruthi i don't think Saanjh n fly blackmailed him , they presumed a lot but they are not forcing him to accept saanjh (though they will be very happy if it happens ) .

Saanjh was not just frn with with whom arjun just hanged out , she is like essential commodity which arjun wants n he gives her 2nd preference if sum motr attractive things he see

Hence i always say i won't support this pair unless arjun truly values her . This saanjh going away is just mini hearattack . Only when saanjh will not ne avilable for his needs his feelings for saanjh will be tested.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

@pom when I read the book " Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus" one of the main things that book told was if we want something from men, we have to spell out than spin our cocoons.

My hubby himself had told me it multiple times, tell me your problem directly than expect me to understand. Yes they understand if we can speak to them. Most men cannot read indirect signs

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CutiepieAD

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

The comments here are so entertaining 😆

Saanjh going bare foot to mandir 😆😆

But I agree Saanjh isn't mahaan atleast not till now... Saanjh has been made to believe that Arjun is hers, by Vandana nd her all the people around her.. How Shubham said "Arjun left u and went to som1 else" ??!! If a child is having such thoughts then ofcourse Saanjh who already has been loving Arjun since long. It was Saanjh's mom , Vandana who have fed this into her mind.. And also her mistake of taking Arjun's cmnts such as "Meri Saanjh"etc very ssly.. And thus its expected frm her to say such ott dialogues

But if Saanjh agrees to marry Ayan for Vandana's happiness she will come in Mahaan category, i think something like dis will happen

Abt Arjun not valuing Saanjh, i think thats how the char is n moreover thats how their relationship has been, Saanjh never demanded him to value her or say thanks or anything lyk that.. But the first tym he said thanks to her, that too becuz of Maya..So yes Arjun is changing, not by the spoon feeding of Saanjh, but his love for Maya is definitely changng him as a person... And finally he will start valuing her, he might even apologise for hurting her feelings(though he was never at fault)

after Saanjh's confession too, things will change for him.. I am waiting for his rxn right now...

Abt Maya, i agree that at this point of tym, she has to be angry, n shud not trust Arjun.. She has given ample of chances to Jhanvi, asked her to stay away frm Ashwin, used bth hook and crook, but the woman doesn't listen.. Now she's her mom.. and she's doing such a thing to her, then why not a man who has just entered her life? If he gets manipulated or emotionally blackmailed by his mom or Saanjh(they might not do so, but Maya will think on these lines as she has seen worse ppl like Ashwin) thn just like her mom, might think of leaving her... But in this course she might forget her own tag given to Arjun, that he's unique.. When she realises this, she will truly love him

for now all the 3 characters are realistic nd thats why this show is different from others😃

Edited by aditi97 - 8 years ago

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#30

@Radha my hubby had told me multiple times. Dont cry, dont run away and dont get too emotional. If you have a problem you can speak to me. I will listen. I may not give you exactly what you expect, but then in the long run it will be beneficial for both of us. Because when you suddenly break down and tells things I dont know where that leaves me. I feel guilty of not able to understand you, though it was not intentional.

I was very much a person who had difficulty in speaking about my emotions. Very closed and introvert person. But I have changed quite a lot on this aspect post marriage, when I talked and didnt get rebuked, sometimes the issues getting resolved also, I was encouraged more to talk with my better half. My crying, and sudden breakdowns used to be emotional blackmail for my hubby though I never intended it 😆

@poppins whenever you touch grey for a protagonist the script has to justify it. Game is how well you justify it without being hypocrite. That's the beauty in etching of a grey character . Saanjh obviously will be the one in between them , but I feel she will also be the one who will bring them together.

I feel the current track is going to be the most tiring track for everyone concerned as we can expect more melodrama from Saanjh.

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