Fharak Toh Padta Hai #BepanahParadise - Part 4 - Page 29

Originally posted by: Kiruravi

Aditya need not be every girl's pride. He can and will be zoya's pride forever. Ram sita he made a mistake but he accepted his mistake and apologised to her which many men in real world will not do. This is where aditya is becoming zoya's pride. He had never let zoya down publicly. That night he told so mny harsh words but that was between them that 4 walls nobody knws their problem except adiya and though what he did was wrong it made naraj to stop all their evil plans against zoya indirectly. Perfect men dont exist but what makes imperfect men pride for a women is how he treats her loves her trusts her inspite of all the shortcomings and problems.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I don't think aditya is a person who u feel pride to have as my by ..after Sita ram episode I can't say that

He is a normal human being who realises his mistakes ..when proofs r available

What if rajveer nanny never confessed truth...

u feel pride only no one has that and u have it ..right ..

BUT ADHITYA is a normal guy as he himself said that ..then there's nothing to feel to be proud ..he is a lovable guy upright honest guy ..

EKTA shows that type of guys u wish to have u as u r hubby i.e feel pride ..but really may be 0.000001 percent chance such a guy exists

Mahir in naagin is such a guy ..every gal prides to have him as hubby

Ur comparing apples and oranges here. I have seen Naagin 3 for most part n I quit it three weeks ago. So I am familiar with Mahir. His character is a perfect goody two shoes unrealistic guy. Sorry to say this but no guy is perfect in real n no girl is perfect too. I could never connect with Mahir bcoz he is too good to be true n the reason y most of the BP fd could connect with Adi is bcoz he is realistic. He has his own set of flaws that makes him human. As for AP that track was forced upon us n I am pretty sure it was not the makers vision warna both HC and Jenny wouldn't dismiss it as one of the bad phases of the show. Zoya may have been pretending to screw up in front of the family bcoz she was being threatened but nobody including Adi knew. Yet Adi supported her. He did lose his cool on her only when Zoya accused Anjana of trying to murder her own family to put Zoya down in front of others. Maybe Mahir would shut his mouth n believe Bela if she had done that bcoz that guy simply can't take a stand for crying out loud. But Adi questioned her n challenged her accusation. He supported her when he had to n he also contradicted her when she was wrong. His conviction about matters is what makes him a better person for me. Loving someone doesn't mean being blind towards them. U should also have the guts to stand up to them when u know they r wrong.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Remember he apo.ogised only after proofs availa i.e ..yes some men don't do that and they are called as jerks and ADHITYA is not a jerk

Any one can be any one pride only if he is unique .and ADHITYA is not unique ..he is not a jerk it he is a Saadha seedha guy .u can love the guy even if he is not unique which zoya does ,,that's a diff issue

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Ur comparing apples and oranges here. I have seen Naagin 3 for most part n I quit it three weeks ago. So I am familiar with Mahir. His character is a perfect goody two shoes unrealistic guy. Sorry to say this but no guy is perfect in real n no girl is perfect too. I could never connect with Mahir bcoz he is too good to be true n the reason y most of the BP fd could connect with Adi is bcoz he is realistic. He has his own set of flaws that makes him human. As for AP that track was forced upon us n I am pretty sure it was not the makers vision warna both HC and Jenny wouldn't dismiss it as one of the bad phases of the show. Zoya may have been pretending to screw up in front of the family bcoz she was being threatened but nobody including Adi knew. Yet Adi supported her. He did lose his cool on her only when Zoya accused Anjana of trying to murder her own family to put Zoya down in front of others. Maybe Mahir would shut his mouth n believe Bela if she had done that bcoz that guy simply can't take a stand for crying out loud. But Adi questioned her n challenged her accusation. He supported her when he had to n he also contradicted her when she was wrong. His conviction about matters is what makes him a better person for me. Loving someone doesn't mean being blind towards them. U should also have the guts to stand up to them when u know they r wrong.

Yes Mahir is too good to be true ..but if at all if a guy like that exists and he is u r hubby THEN ITSA PRIDE FOR U ..u got what 99.999999 percent did not get and it a pride

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

IB fd is huge and so is the no of Nakul and SC fans. People will always vote for their favourite as opposed to who actually deserves it coz in their POV their fav is the most deserving. There are thin chances of HC and Jenny winning it. Btw y are Nakul n SC fans at loggerheads? I don't think there is any issue between the leads for sure. Y r their fd fighting with each other?

Ohhh!! I didnt notice that he was drunk!

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Remember he apo.ogised only after proofs availa i.e ..yes some men don't do that and they are called as jerks and ADHITYA is not a jerk

Any one can be any one pride only if he is unique .and ADHITYA is not unique ..he is not a jerk it he is a Saadha seedha guy .u can love the guy even if he is not unique which zoya does ,,that's a diff issue

And ADHITYA did not trust zoya..i.e it's not unflinching trust ...though he trusted her some times but it's not unflinching and it's a fact ..please don't talk about unflinching trust after that seetha episode

He trusted her in lesser circumstances but the most trying circumstance comes up.he gives up

Unflinching trust in itv I saw in only one guy till now and it's Mahir in naagin..

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Honestly, Maahir has been shown to be too good. He has no qualms with his father who has a second wife. He is apparently fine with it too.

Now, he will come to know about Bela knowing about Yuvi's death which will anger him. Everyone comes and kind of uses him and he is too good to let that happe. A guy so empathising as Maahir is very very rare.

I would say that both Aditya and Zoya have given pain to each other due to circumstances. Circumstances had made Zoya get the Hoodas publicly humiliated not once but thrice yet Aditya stood by her. But those same circumstances forced Adi to believe Zoya cheated on him by sleeping with Rajveer. If we can give Zoya benefit of doubt by saying that she was blackmailed, Adi too deserves benefit of doubt because of all the emotional turmoil he had been through.

@varuni I don't know mahir so can't tell anything abt him. Coming to aditya I will still maintain he is zoya pride. Including ram Sita track. I am going through back episodes and I understand how beautifully ani sir has directed that last scene to uphold his leading man's dignity. To understand aditya it is not enough u see u have to feel. As I had always maintained BP is not a show to be seen but felt. EK shows are for those who see. Though I have not seen mahir before taking a decision of not watching her shows anymore I have seen enough of brainless heroes of hers. And they don't qualify as pride in my dictionary. From what Mandy said it looks like mahir is another lollipop like many I have seen in early 2000 in her soaps. If there is any flawed character that comes close to aditya hooda that is Sumit Wadhwa of kumkum pyaara sa bandhan which was not a EK soap and very successful. Played beautifully by Hussain. Yes I gave up that soap when it became dragging but the way they developed Sumit -kumkum relation was a beauty. And thankfully kumkum could show its story without EK drama of 3 and 4 marriages because those times such shows also got good ratings. So let us agree to disagree. Aditya is not perfect,he is imperfectly perfect and for me can be a girl's pride.