Bad days are ahead for Nimboli. DT NOTE PG 9

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Sup123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#61

Why Mangla doesn't trust outsiders?
Tribal people don't trust outsiders. I hope akhira family is not a tribal family :P
But if it is, then it will help nimboli to deal with tribals as an ias officer posted in tribal districts. It's an internship for nimboli, the would be ias, nandini shivraj shekhar. hehe :P

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#62

Nobody including Anandi herself gave a clean chit in Nandini's kidnapping.

If Nandini and Anandi re-union happens and Nandini is hostile to her mother nobody even find it wrong we all will say that Anandi deserved to be treated that way by her own daughter.

Anandi has to earn her place the very same place which has been hers without any questions.The place which she lost it because of a mistake by her.

Mangala is not being criticised because she is getting from Nandini what Anandi should have got.Nandini has kept her mother's place vacant and the love she has for Mangala and Kamili is way different from what she wants from her mother.

Mangala is being criticised for not doing what she could have done for herself as well as for that girl irrespective of the fact who the mother of that girl is. She would have been criticised even more had she been the mother.

Sarita also to be blamed for Pooja's elopement but the fact is she did teach her daughter the right values her daughter knew that she is expected to get good education and that is her priority.Her daughter not only knew that child marriage is wrong but believed it is wrong but still gave into Mannu's arguments.

Sarita did ensure the child knew what is the right way of doing things we can't say she is a failure.

In fact Pooja despite being in her senses knowing what is wrong and right convinced herself to give in to Mannu's ways. For that Pooja had to be blamed

Sarita didn't realise where her daughter's friendship is leading her. Which is where she is at fault.

Eloping - Pooja has to be blamed as well as Mannu.

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Vidya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

How did you know that she did not tell those stories? Children cant be programmed. They just have their own thinking.

Only children can be programmed for good as well as bad, grown ups cant be programmed.😆

I can tell she instilled no values in pooja from Pooja's behavior. Children who have values, do not run away from house with a boy at the age of 15, no matter how much the boy EBs them.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#64

If Mangala is criticized for not doing anything for herself, I can understand. I also feel she could have done a lot more to herself other than just saving herself from getting molested from Akhiraj.

But what I cannot accept is when people say she could have done a lot more to nimboli when nimboli is nothing to her... she is being expected to make nimboli the purpose of her life when her purpose is something else.

What she is giving to nimboli is unconditional love. If nimboli is smiling and cheerful, it is because there is someone there who cares for her, with whom she can talk and laugh and play with.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Shinya

Only children can be programmed for good as well as bad, grown ups cant be programmed.😆

I can tell she instilled no values in pooja from Pooja's behavior. Children who have values, do not run away from house with a boy at the age of 15, no matter how much the boy EBs them.

It is nothing but passing the buck. Sarita can say that her own parents did not instil values.

Pooja should take responsibility for her own actions. She knows what is good and what is bad. She allowed herself to give in.

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Sup123
Anandi requested Mangala to enrol nimboli in the school when they met in temple and Anandi explained her the value of education (so we can't assume that Mangala doesn't know the value of education because she is illiterate). Nimboli is putting her efforts to learn something from kundan, that means Nimboli doesn't put someone's advice in dustbin and Mangala doesn't give a damn to Anandi's advice, not for once she gave a thought for it, what was the harm if she could have asked akhi to put nimboli in school (could have used devi act, hahaha just kidding), we know akhi would have refused but at least then we could have seen that Mangala also put her efforts but no she won't do anything and will never pay a heed to others advice also.

Well , now that we are talking all about what more mangala could have done to a girl who is actually nothing to her, let us talk all about what Anandi could have done about her own missing daughter.

Anandi meets Nandini 3 times. The girl exactly is the age of her missing daughter. Anyone would feel curious. Why does Anandi not feel it? Each time she meets Nandini, something strange is revealed to her. And she does not suspect anything,Like some members mentioned earlier? She sees nandini on a tree at midnight...and simply leaves her at her home without meeting and warning the child's parents? Kamili mentions about Nandini's bal vivah...and still Anandi does not ask nandini those details? When she came to know that nandini is uneducated, how come she didn't ask her what else she does...?

To akhiraj, feeding nandini is itself a burden. why would he let her go to school ? It makes no sense for mangala to ask him, knowing he wouldn't agree to it. And believe me, if mangala had asked, it wouldn't prove anything. All that we'll say is " She could have done more..." You know, there's no end to "more..."

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#67

Let us agree to disagree.

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Vidya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is nothing but passing the buck. Sarita can say that her own parents did not instil values.

Pooja should take responsibility for her own actions. She knows what is good and what is bad. She allowed herself to give in.

Sarita cannot say that because she is an adult. She is at an age where she can tell what is wrong and what is right.

And pooja is still a kid, she is not able to take right decisions because she has no experience of the world.

When children become successful, we give the credit to their parents for raising them in the correct way. Similarly if they do wrong, it is also because of the parents who instilled no values in them.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#69

Mannu had every right to be angry with his parents and feel hurt and lash out at them but it was very wrong on his part to elope just like the way it was very wrong on Pooja's part to elope too.

Mannu's parents have handled the issues wrongly.He could have stayed at home and rebelled.

Pooja was wrong to let her brain screwed by Mannu's emotional state. Running away from home is not the answer in either Mannu's or Pooja's case.

If Kamili or Nimboli run away from Akheraj and Harki's home it is understandable.

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Yuvika

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Posted: 10 years ago

#70

DT NOTE

The key point of discussion in this thread is Nimboli and her future. Expanding discussions to include Mannu, Pooja and Ganga-Anandi's conflict is irrelevant.

There is no need for every thread to turn into a fanwar between Ganga and Anandi fans. Please refrain from diverting away from the key topic of discussion.

BV. Dev Team.

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