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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

I felt Jagya was quite cool and very neutral. I liked his attitude.

Dadisa should learn certain coolness from him. She should restrain herself and should not draw anandi into BH politics again and again.

I dont think that mannu asking about anand maasi's sudden exit is wrong. Any kid will ask that if that person was staying with them for such a long period. And he has a good equation with anandi.

Harki's act was superb. Not able to say anything but simply gesturing. I thought her rough husband will slap her once more to make her speak.

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RTee

@RTee

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

DadiSa, she really needs to cut down on her exuberance. And wonder what stopped her from telling everyone where she was going. That was the least that she should have done. She was just so excited. Just like the other day when she arranged that secret felicitation. I think age is finally catching up.

Anandi wasn't expecting her either. But then as she told Anandi in different words that "old habits die hard". Anandi will have to put a stop to this sooner rather than later.

Harki was indeed too good. In fact the entire Jhalra family members excel in their craft. She was smiling and just so excited at the thought of her daughter's upcoming wedding, giving her the wedding dress, and suddenly the world came crashing down on her. If only people had noticed that the usually hyper Nimboli, so concerned about Kamli, was just behaving like an unconcerned observer.

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And I need to watch the episode again just because it was really good. So many undercurrents😊

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Arti,

Nice observations.

Felt good watching smiling Anandi nicely settled in her own home. Of course she has to take care of lot of things alone now but she never shied away from responsibilities so this time too she will manage efficiently.

Her smile was coming from inside, as she was feeling the freedom to direct her life as well as of her kid in the direction she deems right with calming presence of Shiv around them . Hoping her other kid will reunite with them soon and make their home perfect .

Good that Vimla's called in front of J and she denied regarding her promise letting J know that she has freed Jagan from her request to let Mannu meet Ratan.

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Ganga too is smiling but her smile turned too soon in the frown. Why she got disturbed by Mannu discussing reason of Anandi massi shifting SN? Any guilt feeling?

She has kept secrets from J,A and Mannu , those are bound to come back on her . Specially Mannu's if he come to know that Ratan was his biological father who once saved his life and who died with his unfulfilled wish of watching him once. She will not be able to rectify then.

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Mangala's smile too will soon vanish when she will see the consequence of Kundan's second marriage on Nandini's safety.

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Little Nandini, poor girl does not know to curb her smiles in such situations which may land her in trouble.

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Harki's smile was vicious so it needed to vanish and that happened soon.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Stephi

Putting Jagya down and expressing so much of compassion and mercy for one criminal, rapist and the bully Ratan is the best indicator of how people are drowning in their own bias for a single purpose- to glorify Anandi.
People're looking forward to Mannu to find out a terrible truth about his biological father. Who he was, what he was, how he tortured his mother, how he enjoyed in his mortal illness just to get back at Ganga and Jagy , to find out that he wasn't born out of love but as a result of rape. People say Ratan has every right to die.peacefully. Ganga is a selfish, insensitive woman , does not want to fulfill her torturer's last wish , has no the right to think about it just because Anandi has promised and some member here said ''remember what she stands for. Truth and justice''. Does she? What kind of justice is that if rapist and torturer and bully after all his misdeeds will die peacefully while two innocent beings, his victim and her child will go through hell again And all this is justified because Ganga should be underestimated. MLA Dr. Jagdish Singh is constantly belittled but one criminal Ratan deserves immediate forgiveness and rehabilitation .

People are so biased that they do not pay attention to Ratan's mother that she remained the same selfish woman who said to Anandi if you don't care for your promise don't care but have fear of God , words which she never said to her son while he tortured a young woman. She has every right to be concerned for her son the criminal, but Ganga has no right to worry for her minor son?
People are so biased so they put Anandi and Gauri together as Jagya's victims,but they forget what has precisely Gauri said about Anandi after so many years.Why Anandi acts as if she owns Jagya😉

stephi u r rite. i agree wid u completely.

and ppl need not 2 worry abt ganga.she'dn't hidden anything from any1 except mannu that 2 abt his bio father.

if ganga'd hidden then Aji'd also hidden. she'd also hidden her being Ex wife of J but still living peacefully & happily under same roof.

and she'd also hidden abt nandini & her kidnapping from shivam.

its not only ganga'd hidden. Aji'd also hidden & soon she"ll also've 2 face all the results bcoz of this.

and yes why Aji thinks she wons J??😉she mite b her child hoood frnd but shes also J's Ex Wife which makes the situn & relationship complex & esply wen she lived under sam eroof wid her mrd Ex.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: RTee
DadiSa, she really needs to cut down on her exuberance. And wonder what stopped her from telling everyone where she was going. That was the least that she should have done. She was just so excited. Just like the other day when she arranged that secret felicitation. I think age is finally catching up.

Anandi wasn't expecting her either. But then as she told Anandi in different words that "old habits die hard". Anandi will have to put a stop to this sooner rather than later.

Harki was indeed too good. In fact the entire Jhalra family members excel in their craft. She was smiling and just so excited at the thought of her daughter's upcoming wedding, giving her the wedding dress, and suddenly the world came crashing down on her. If only people had noticed that the usually hyper Nimboli, so concerned about Kamli, was just behaving like an unconcerned observer.
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And I need to watch the episode again just because it was really good. So many undercurrents😊

DS had promised Shivam before he left BH that she would come to meet him everyday. So she is keeping her promise.

She did tell she was going to SN. And Anandi lives in SN. 😆 ... she probably expected people to put 2 and 2 together...😆

Only mannu was clever to notice that she went with prasad...😆

I think now it will become a custom for dadisa to first meet shivam, give him prasad and then start her routine work at SN... Nice😊

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

I really dont understand what kind of husband wife bond is that, how they are called soul mate

How the kids are brought up?

Why ds have to hide if she is going there

Anandi shares the same bond with ds what jagya shares

So its natural ds is attached to shivam

What own blood ?

Those are rubbish, bond formed by love, care, trust is more strong than blood

We have already seen that when jagya left home to stay with gouri

So why ganga making face?

Before getting married she knows very well what kind of bond bh people shares with anandi

She has not done anything wrong to them

Its totally problem between jagya and ganga.

They failed to trust, understand each other, share everything with each other, so that gap has been formed

They dragged anandi again and again in their talks

So its totally their fault

Why should ds control her love for anandi and shivam

She will shower love to every one and everyone has to accept it

Ganga instead of comparing should make her kids understand how to learn sharing and caring instead of fuelling the kids fight

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Ganga does not know how Anandi and Gauri's first husband had been and how much they went through😭Poor Anandi and Gauri world's two biggest victims 🤣

but i wonder

If Poor Anandi's first husband had been so bad How come he is her best friend How they are called by same people as childhood best friends Anandi still consider him as her best friend😕You don't make a bad person your best friend? 😆 Heth Singh is not Anandi's best friend 🤣but yes her first husband is her best friend ? how? he was so bad naa then why he has always been her best friend Confused ?

if Anandi's first husband had been so bad then how she fallen in love with him😕Ganga has not fallen in love with Ratan Singh but Anandi she was in love with her first husband ?

if Anandi's first husband had been so bad why it was so difficult for her to move on from him when he left her Why she was crying buckets holding his doll , why she was imagining him here and there and run into his arms, her badi maasi tells her a story of her husband she imagines her first husband in a romantic situation on swing Hands in hands

if Anandi's first husband had been so bad why when his second wife asked her to move on He does not belong to you anymore You should move on I must say second wife was not wrong she gave a sane advise to Anandi Why crying over a broken relation but Anandi shouted her first husband not her love only He is her life she can never forget him never will even try Wonder why? he was so bad naa 😆

Anandi's first husband had been so bad then why it was so difficult for her to get divorce from him Dadisaa forced her and Anandi was in state of shock she should be happy She can move on from such bad person but she was in state of shock Crying Not in senses at all whats going on around her Papers that she was checking in her class room flying here and there , she was v imagining him signing divorce papers in front of her Why? Ganga was so happy when she signed divorce papers from her monster husband but Anandi's husband has been worst than even Ratan Singh according to people🤣so why it was so difficult for her ?

Anandi 's first husband had been so bad then why she was crying in front of him on divorce day In front of Judge, in front of him she cried when he signed the papers She with trembling hands signed it then cried ? Ganga was really happy she got divorce from Ratan and Anandi was crying she got divorce from her first husband who was even worst than Ratan Singh as per people? why ?

Anandi 's first husband had been so bad then why she ran after him on divorce day and telling him i fell in love with you but you didn't give chance you left ?Why she wanted chance from him he was so bad naa 😆why she fell in love with him?

Anandi's first husband was so bad then why she was expecting him back ? In defense of her it will be said No she was not 😛Really? then what about on her engagement day with her second husband She was crying but why? scared of happiness No Her father in law cum father understood her real feelings and told her emotionally your first husband had left He won't come back now Forget him and she cried her heart out at that Anyone doubt me please watch Balika Vadhu serial or read update for proof 😛

Anandi's first husband had been so bad then why her heart started beating fast she sensed his presence in Haveli and was emotionally looking here and there Stopped putting ring on her poor second husband's finger and he was shocked The family has to nod to Anandi go ahead do it otherwise she was looking around for her first husband

Anandi first husband had been so bad then why she was peeping in his room before her marriage with second husband and watching him sleeping then telling her mother in law cum mother love happens only once ?

Anandi first husband had been so bad then why she was pushing away her second husband because she was having sweet memories of her first husband 😆she was scared of happiness Pushing second husband away because he reminded her of her first husband ? No what is shown in serial her second husband painfully said to her i know it is getting difficult for you give me place of your first husband and she did not disagree with him she cried in shame and guilt because she was cheating her second husband not over from first husband and married him

Anandi 's first husband had been so bad then why she lives in her lalalands for him she is the most important person in his life ? He never involves her in his personal life , never share anything with her , never asks her opinion , never gives her any explanations when she questions him about his personal life she is no one for him to whom he would share , discuss , and give explanations to her about his personal life but she involves herself in his personal life because in this way she keeps herself satisfied he still needs her ?why she thinks he needs her even now ?Why she is doing competition with his wife where she thinks he pays more attention on her words , give more importance to her words than his wife so she wants to move out of his sight so he can finally start paying attention on his wife ? why ? where he asked her opinion about his kids , about his personal life in the first place that she thinks he gives more weight to her words than his wife ? When he even share his professional problems with her ? so why she thinks this for him? Why she was lecturing him on his marital life? did he ask her opinion He never involved her in his personal life therefore she knows nothing and she without knowing all facts was blaming him and then trying to correct him Every single viewer of serial knows its not Jagya who is wrong to Ganga Its Ganga who is wrong to him so Jagya if wanted could reply to Anandi but he did not Why he should give explanations to Anandi He says he has no right on her personal life so same way he has not given Anandi right as well that he would give her explanations on his personal life but why Anandi is so interested to involve herself in his personal life ? otherwise best friends dont give advises to each other's on their personal life until they themselves don't ask because best friends have no right on each other's personal life when Jagya does not involve Anandi in his personal life why Anandi involves herself to keep her satisfied he needs her ??

Anandi could say no to Dadisaa and break her heart , Anandi could say no to shivam and broke her heart but she was saying she cannot say no to Jagya Cannot move out in his presence in front of him so ran away behind his back ? why? it was most easy for her to convince him and he got convinced The moment he realized it was her own decision He got convinced and says its your decision and i respect it so why Anandi assumed he will be heart broken with her leaving Badi haveli and she ran in his absence then prepared herself to face him because this is not possible she could escape from him He would definitely ask her why you left because there was some tension between her and Ganga He would want to know did she leave because of it so Anandi had to prepare herself to face him Why she keeps believing she is most important person in his life ? why so much interest in him Friends don't behave like that

I have a best friend who is my friend when i was only 4 years old and she still my best friend but i don't think i am so much important for her that she listens to me more than her siblings, i don't interfere in her personal life and give her lectures on that I only give my advice when she asks me, when she needs my help but here Anandi lectures him even when he does not ask her , even when he does not need ? why why why?Friends have no right on each other's personal life Anandi's first husband says that and proves too He does not even prefer to discuss Anandi's decisions thats hers what right he has to discuss them He respects them but Anandi lectures him on his personal life why? Why she shows off she still have right on him she owns him?

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Next whom Gauri ji 🤣 her first husband had been so bad to her then why she was desperate to have him back😆why? why ? when she came to know he has moved on and married Ganga if he was so bad should n't she be telling Ganga I feel sorry for you you married this monster He will ruin your life like he ruined mine 😆but what she did She realized what a bad wife and lover she had been She lost him because of her own mistakes otherwise life has given her many chances to save her relation but she rejected them but when she realized his value in her life , realized her mistakes it was too late for her She said to him i cannot blame you because i was wrong When you love someone you love him selflessly unconditionally not use him for your selfish purposes ,wanting to mold him as per your wishes , make him dance on your tunes She said to Ganga you are best mate for him The way you love him i could never what you did for him i could never neither can and she left with a heart break she lost her first husband , her first love because of her own misdeeds

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so from this i conclude that Anandi and Gauri's first husband was really bad 🤣then God knows why they were and are so much interested in him why so much obsessed with him 🤣

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

After reading the WU of 15 may, I watched that epi again ...

when did jagya say "ok then as you wish" and leave ?? ... this was wrongly written in the update.

As per the episode, when anandi said now you go home, he asked her 'so you are not coming home?'

she nodded negatively and he simply left without uttering a word.

He did not seem to be convinced that anandi left BH because ganga needed more of jagya's time.

But he felt left from SN because he realised anandi was firm and was not going to change her mind. He went home and told ganga, we have to respect her decision...what else could he do?😆

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Jaya-V

@Jaya-V

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: RTee

Jagya was matter of fact. He has accepted that Anandi has gone

yes so ? She has gone it was her decision Jagya has accepted it He should have no issues neither he has because he always says Anandi and her personal life her own decisions are hers he has no right on that neither he has problems with that whatever she does

and would prefer not to discuss it.

yes so? why he should have discussion on her decisions He says he respects her personal decision and he does unlike Anandi who never respects his personal decisions forcing her decisions on his head , lecturing him on his personal life Jagya is not like her He never interferes in her life neither wish to have discussion on her decisions she makes for her and her kid Jagya's approach is how mature people behave

Good strategy. Out of sight out of mind. 😊

Great how it become out of sight out of mind strategy ? i feel it is respecting someones decision strategy

Why you expect him to cry for her , keep remembering her all day , miss her keep making rounds of shiv niketan ?😆 and when she was in his house where she captured his mind and heart ? He is his own life to deal with His own family , his wife his kids He was nice to her and still is and will help her in same way if she ever needed his help He always thought best of her still does The fact she stays in BH with her own relation with BH and Dadisaa and Jagya has not kept her for his personal interest Jagya keeps himself out her relation with BH She stays where , decides whatever for her life and kid he has no issues its her life He gives her space to make her own decisions and respects it In our life many people come I had lots of school friends who were my best friends but now i lost in touch with them They moved out to some other city and are leading their own lives i am leading my own They are in my mind as a memory Yeah some where in my life i met them but i don't cry for them People come and go in our lives Anandi like many other people came in Jagya's life she will always remain in his mind and the fact through Dadisaa they will keep interacting even still now but Anandi was a part of his life not is Jagya have issues what she decides best for herself after all its his life Why he should cry for her, remember her miss her ? Jagya has more important people for him who needs him His wife , his kids , his Dadisaa , his patients , his Jaitsar Anandi if ever needed his help he will rest it her life whatever she does with it Anandi stayed in his house he treated her well now she has moved out her wish why he should be sad it or do discussions on it ?
But do remember what she stands for. Truth and justice.

why he should ? where he forgot her greatness but he does not need to preach it to everyone

i wonder why it is so much stressed that Jagya should remember Anandi Too hard to accept He has CLEARLY moved on from Anandi where he does not think Anandi is anyone in personal life He neither lectures her on her personal life , neither interfere , neither makes decisions for her children neither he shares anything on his personal life with Anandi , neither give her explanations when she questions him on that while Anandi she thinks he still needs her she lectures him on his personal life all falsely without knowing the facts on the basis of her false assumptions Jagya never says i am more important for Anandi than her anyone but she thinks he gives more weight to my words than Ganga Why she thinks so? when he showed her that?she thinks he will be heart broken with her leaving BH Her imagination while in actually he is not so why she keeps showing herself so important in his life ? Anandi long time has passed Move on Accept the fact he does not belong to you anymore Care for him your friend, respect him but dont make yourself the most important person for him as you are not

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Jaya-V

@Jaya-V

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Shinya

After reading the WU of 15 may, I watched that epi again ...
when did jagya say "ok then as you wish" and leave ?? ... this was wrongly written in the update.

As per the episode, when anandi said now you go home, he asked her 'so you are not coming home?'

she nodded negatively and he simply left without uttering a word.

He did not seem to be convinced that anandi left BH because ganga needed more of jagya's time.

But he felt left from SN because he realised anandi was firm and was not going to change her mind. He went home and told ganga, we have to respect her decision...what else could he do?😆

i believe the updater has quoted his expression His expression was that His attitude was that The pictures are too there to see and any person can see that😆The updater is complete right She is not wrong Wrong is people saying Jagya was in awe of Anandi🤣

He did not seem convinced with Anandi leaving BH he left because Anandi was firm 😆Gosh😆 he realized it was Anandis own decision This is what he said Watch episode he said that and Jagya 11 years ago did not ask her to stay in BH He said its your own decision your choice Here he felt she left because of Ganga because she left after a tense situation between her and Ganga The moment he realized it was her own decision he came back and again and again saying it is her decision Anandi's firmness does not matter to him He always says he has no right to interfere in Anandi's personal decisions neither he kept her in house He told her it was her own decision even then even here he did same it was her own decision so why he should have issues ?

Yes he was not convinced with Anandi's lecture on Ganga and his marital life but he understood his own meaning from her words Ganga said nothing to her that she left 😛because this what he did after coming back home apologized to Ganga He was wrong

and Jagya would have never have dragged Anandi back home had she told him she is leaving for her own reasons but Jagya does not want her to leave because of him and Ganga His marital life 11 years ago he said same don't leave because of me and my marital life rest your wish The matter is between you and Dadisaa now too when he felt she left because of Ganga , his marital life he went to bring her back but moment he realized it was her own decision Ganga did nothing he came back

and firmly i believe he asked from her so you are not coming back she responded quite weakly did not even speak but nodded head her as no Voice was struck in her throat

and says its her decision i respect it no point of discussing it Topic closed

Here Mannu asked from him He said same her decision we have to respect The end No further discussion on it 😛

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