Chaos in both houses - Page 4

Originally posted by: tanvismile

A is very much at fault for delaying matter, there is no strong reason for her delay ,cvs want to show how homemakers are neglegent to their own health ,but it is not small problem ,she forgets her weird behavior ,this is not to be taken lightly.Its an extremely serious issue .Or is it she scared to see the reports.No she is just being neglegent to her own health.

By ignoring, problems like DB or sickness wont go away.

Sometimes Anandi is quite obstinate.

Originally posted by: rohini55

Sorry but I think forum is overreacting in calling Shekhars evil. On first day, when Anandi danced around shiv, Db did her nautanki and Anoop was rude but Ira took A aside and spoke concernedly with her. She thought it was a hormonal problem and she was right in thinking that because nobody would ever think she has been drugged.

When A apologised daddu was very sweet to her and said to forget it.

Shiv was with her throughout though arguably he could have made some warmer gestures. He pleaded with her to go to the doctor, he said the other doc was excellent, A refused flatly. What could he do in the face of this resistance?

Next day she left the gas open and endangered daddu's life. Family doesn't know she is drugged and their first reaction is naturally anger. If I leave the gas open and my father is barely saved from dying, i would be shouted at too. Family will first yell -- it is an absolutely natural reaction and thereafter may wonder how it happened. But here too Ira was supportive and spoke to her gently. It was DB who created all the drama. DB's deliberate overreaction made the whole family look evil which is not true.

In the case of photos too she was repeatedly told to be careful. And since they don't know she is drugged, there was reason to think she was careless. Here again DB and anoop are doing the shouting.

I would fault the family for not being sensitive, not noticing that she is unwell. But i wouldn't call them evil.
A's dearest childhood friend gulli abandoned her. Is she evil?

Dadisa saw Anandi behave strangely twice. Did she take it up with her or with Shiv?With her sharp eyes she should have known something was wrong. More so since she knows A inside out. Why did she not think through this? Why does she get selfish every now and then? She calls A to BH in times of need but why does she not find if all is well with A?Is she evil?


Finally, A realises something is terribly wrong with her. Why dies not agree to go to the doctor instead of waiting for two days?

Completely agree with you.
Shekhars except db are not evil.They can be called insensitive or stupid.although daddu was almost killed he didn't say a word against Anandi.
Ira is supporting Anandi in a way and even trying to find out the reason for her illness.
Shekhars are just being careless about Anandi's health which is obviously not a good thing.

Anandi didn't go to see a doctor due to her own reasons.Shiv couldn't have dragged her,he insisted though.

Originally posted by: rohini55

Sorry but I think forum is overreacting in calling Shekhars evil. On first day, when Anandi danced around shiv, Db did her nautanki and Anoop was rude but Ira took A aside and spoke concernedly with her. She thought it was a hormonal problem and she was right in thinking that because nobody would ever think she has been drugged.

When A apologised daddu was very sweet to her and said to forget it.

Shiv was with her throughout though arguably he could have made some warmer gestures. He pleaded with her to go to the doctor, he said the other doc was excellent, A refused flatly. What could he do in the face of this resistance?

Next day she left the gas open and endangered daddu's life. Family doesn't know she is drugged and their first reaction is naturally anger. If I leave the gas open and my father is barely saved from dying, i would be shouted at too. Family will first yell -- it is an absolutely natural reaction and thereafter may wonder how it happened. But here too Ira was supportive and spoke to her gently. It was DB who created all the drama. DB's deliberate overreaction made the whole family look evil which is not true.

In the case of photos too she was repeatedly told to be careful. And since they don't know she is drugged, there was reason to think she was careless. Here again DB and anoop are doing the shouting.

I would fault the family for not being sensitive, not noticing that she is unwell. But i wouldn't call them evil.
A's dearest childhood friend gulli abandoned her. Is she evil?

Dadisa saw Anandi behave strangely twice. Did she take it up with her or with Shiv?With her sharp eyes she should have known something was wrong. More so since she knows A inside out. Why did she not think through this? Why does she get selfish every now and then? She calls A to BH in times of need but why does she not find if all is well with A?Is she evil?


Finally, A realises something is terribly wrong with her. Why dies not agree to go to the doctor instead of waiting for two days?

jub db sanchi ke saath acchha behaviour nahi karti tabhi shekhars ki aawaj nikalti hai khaskur daddu ki . when db spoke bad of sanchi character how daddu shouted in top of voice toward db .now when db speaking bad of anandi how he remain silent infront of db and bearing each and every word of db shekhars r partial and totally unwanted character of bv .because of shekhars essence of bv is destroy

The problem is about so called educated and modern people. and their way of dealing with problems and their perceptions on issues.

When Sanchi was doing all the breaking and shouting, the Shekhars did not consider it as a psychological problem.

Anandi's case is that her behaviour looked like wilful than something else. As Anandi is comparatively new entry, Shekhars must be thinking that real anandi is surfacing. And the other Anandi maybe faking it. Maybe on the lines of split personality or bipolar.

To clear things, they must impress on Anandi that she should undergo tests to determine as to what exactly is ailing her. Instead they are behaving as if nothing is the matter. Except Ira and Shiv.

Shekhars for all their city life, are not great thinkers.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

When Sanchi was doing all breaking and shouting, the Shekhars did not consider it as a psychological problem.

Anandi's case is that her behaviour looked like wilful than something else. As Ananid is comparatively new entry, Shekhars must be thinking that real anandi is surfacing. And the other Anandi maybe faking it. Maybe on the lines of split personality or bipolar.

To clear things, they must impress on Anandi that she should undergo tests to determine as to what exactly is ailing her. Instead they are behaving as if nothing is the matter. Except Ira and Shiv.

Shekhars for all their city life, are not great thinkers.

for meenu and anup seeing photo album is more important than discussing about that why suddenly anandi behaving like this she never behave like this before . v should find out real reason of anandi behaviour but strangely anup meenu want to c photo album instead of thinking anandi sudden change behaviour

There is so much bias and one-sidedness in analysing the Shekhars. When daddu shouted at DB over Saanchi he also staunchly defended Anandi whom Db denounced as characterless for campaigning for Jagya. Please watch that episode.


Which family would tolerate their DIL's continued relationship with her ex? KB folks have no problems on that score.

When Shiv got into trouble with Rasika and A was by Shiv's side, Ira was so proud of her. it was Meenu who brought Ira up to date on what happened and on how A was rock solid in her support of Shiv.

When A behaved weirdly in BH why did no one in BH, ganga and gehna, say anything? Why did they not say this cannot be A, something is wrong with her? DS saw her do unthinkable things. But she kept quiet? Why is this a forgivable act? She is self-confessedly sharp so should she not have enquired after A's return to KB if all was well? DS never bothered all through Shiv's problems with Rasika. Is that all the concern she has for A?

A's behaviour in KB until the gajra incident was not as weird as it was in BH. She laughed a lot and made fun of DB and daddu. Nobody scolded her for that. It was the dance act and leaving the gas open that brought out their annoyance. But it was only DB and Anoop.

Daddu was too shellshocked but he did not say a word to A.

Gulli is condoned and dismissed as a child. Never seen a child going to HM. As Puja said the bias is because she is from Jaitser. She may not have the guts to take on DB but what stopped her from being A's support?

there is not single episode where shekhars properly stand for anandi