Anandi: Respect must be commanded not demanded - Page 3

Originally posted by: aspbhargavi

Excellent and much needed one debbie ..

There was a story in my childhood about a ferocious snake who used to bite every one ..then a saint came gave her Gyan and the snake became too good even stopped hissing, then everyone who used to go by the road started throwing rocks at her ..Then after some days the saint came back and asked "what happned ""..the snake told every thing ..

then the saint told " one can't forgot who we are " ..Then the Snake started to hiss but not bite ,,then again everyone stopped hitting

I think the story goes to Anandi also who used to be tigress now became a cat( even a cat becomes a tiger when it is in a closed room)

Anandi should protect herself ( being Mum is not giving respect to elders but losing self respect )

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Debbie

I quite liked your post on importance of working. 😊

I think it was really inspirational when Anandi was working as teacher and later became Sarpanch. DS, Gehna and Sumitra were also educating themselves or refreshing their learning.

CVs killed it all to make Anandi the same housewife as she was in BH. Holding trays, bearing worst behavior or hiding flaws of brats.

I think Anandi should work and have some life of her own because if one has suffered such shocks in life earlier then one must be prepared for anything.

Originally posted by: poorvab

when has anandi been a tigress? i have never seen anandi as a tigress infront of her family members. she is always meek and submissive when it comes to her family.

she speaks out n fights for strangers n village poeple but never for herself.

I always felt the writers have something against financially independent educated woman. I really thought after Anandi moved to Udaipur she will either go to college or continue to explore other areas. But all we got was she cooking, holding tray of water, making pakodas, folding clothes. I have nothing against house wives. Even house wife has a life other than always cooking, cleaning. They do have hobbies. Here none of the shekhars ladies have any hobbies. All they do is sit in the living room and eat. Earlier it was Singh's haveli. Now we have two sets of havelis.
Now I have stopped hoping Anandi will do something outstanding. The next track they will bring is her being pregnant or she moving out from haveli... Nothing in terms of her career. She will just be a collectors wife.

Originally posted by: redapple1

I always felt the writers have something against financially independent educated woman. I really thought after Anandi moved to Udaipur she will either go to college or continue to explore other areas. But all we got was she cooking, holding tray of water, making pakodas, folding clothes. I have nothing against house wives. Even house wife has a life other than always cooking, cleaning. They do have hobbies. Here none of the shekhars ladies have any hobbies. All they do is sit in the living room and eat. Earlier it was Singh's haveli. Now we have two sets of havelis.
Now I have stopped hoping Anandi will do something outstanding. The next track they will bring is her being pregnant or she moving out from haveli... Nothing in terms of her career. She will just be a collectors wife.

Originally posted by: Debbiee

Thanks for your analysis redapple1.

I think they would show a temporary ANSH separation where Anandi would resume her career.

In order to elongate the story also to earn brawny points from rural and small town viewers the CVs did not show her working after marriage on her own. Even when she was in Jetsar she hardly went to the Panchayat after her marriage to Shiv.

Pregnancy track would come much later on 😊

Followed by Vikram track 😈

Sheets, again back to Jaitser 😭. No... Same Singhs household, her getting involved in Jagya's life. If at all she needs to move, let her move to Bilaria. She can teach at her teacherji's school.

Originally posted by: redapple1

Sheets, again back to Jaitser 😭. No... Same Singhs household, her getting involved in Jagya's life. If at all she needs to move, let her move to Bilaria. She can teach at her teacherji's school.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

We have to accept that anandi, singhs and jagya will be together till the end of the show. If we have to watch BV have accept this truth. Singhs are first family and their crimes were never got into court till date but this time when they r not wrong such stupid court case to show that they are great people and shekhars are losers,

About Anandi: Why does she need permission from in laws to continue her career and why she needs to take care of the hale and hearty adult people at home full time. I can understand about balancing home and career when there are children involved who depend upon you and the elders are infirm and you have no responsible people to take care in your absence. In KB even daddu is hale and hearty and both mil's are relatively young and they are a very well off family with full time help so why does anandi need to balance home and work. She needs to just have enough time for her marriage and in that respect she is not doing too great even as a housewife too. I see her always doing household chores and not really spending any time on her marriage and Shiv and she never really go anywhere or spend quality time together. She needs to stand up for herself and respect herself before anyone else will. Charity begins at home and in this case she needs to start being charitable towards herself. She should not forget her dreams.