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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Khusi for the update👏Due to the updates I get to know the latest otherwise I get to watch yesterday's episode today...Sometimes adults behave worse than children...Insecurities assume greater proportions when one is angry.Felt bad for Sumitra.Hope dadisa comes soon.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Today's BEST dialogue was by Gehan to Anandi Maiyya "Mujhe tere pravachan sunne ka koi shouk nahin hai" 😆😆

How true !! Anandi and her Pravachans...hum bhi thak chuke hain bhashan sun sun ke 🤣🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gehna gave quite a speech today. And there it finally came - the main source of her anger. She said - "Ab tu itni sayani ho gayi hai ki apne se badon to sikhane lagi hai ki sahi kya hai or galat kya hai ? BhaiSa or Jiji ke laad pyaar ne tujhe sar par chadha diya hai !"

This (blue) is Gehna's main grouse. Being corrected by someone younger to her - not just this once but on way too many occasions and worst yet - being over-ruled in front of her own son, and at times her son preferring Anandi over herself - lunch/stories/homework etc. Gehna does not like Anandi's interference in her own sphere and she specially dislikes the fact that anandi is completely unchecked by Sumi or Bhairon.

In a reserved society - there r norms of behavior and one of those is - that a younger person does not get into a discussion when elders are already at it. I hv myself been told enough times - "badon ki baaton mein chhote nahi bolte". And I have often times wondered how she jumps so often into the middle of some discussions that DS is having with her sons or with the village elders and no one minds it.

Obviously Gehna is not.comfortable with constantly being side-lined by DS for being younger than Sumi, and being too often corrected by a much younger Anandi.

Gehna needs her own sphere of work where she can be the ruling authority. Am glad she realizes that this Haveli is not going to give it to her. Doubt she will let Nandu spoil like Jagya, she has always been shown to be sensible - but CV's have their own motives for suddently turning a perfectly fine character into grey.





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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gehna had to pay price for her evil eye on Anandi.I pity on her leaving Haveli..hope she returns never..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I felt B-G were right in expressing their anger to an extent.

The problem is A's decision in panchayat was one sided and only favoured rameshwar, whereas his wife was the biggest culprit. Nandu did not get any justice, which was not fair. Anandi could have handled this issue more tactfully. She could have made R to pay for nandu's treatment or given them some sort of punishment.
Anyways, the point is that B-G felt injustice was done to them by their own family member. And to top it up B is continuously defending A.
And A, she can't stop herself fom giving lectures. She likes to interfere in every matter whether it is directed to her or not. A needs to learn to give people their space. And thats exactly what Gehna was trying to say in her anger.
G does not have problem learning from A, but everyone has their personal space and A has stepped into G's personal space to the extent of suffocating G. And sadly A is not realising that.
I wish they stop this track. It is just not going anywhere.
Very good acting by Neha!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Neha is an excellent, talented actress impressed India with her unforgettable performance..but Gehna is a bad role for her.
Neha is very young & its a dare feat to accept an old & un fancy role like Gehna.Normally unmarried girls won't accept mother characters... she did a wonderful job over there ...
she has a brighter future n I sincerely wish her all the very best..
But Gehna goes to hell with arrogant husband & mischievous son.
Edited by sreevask - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

Gehna gave quite a speech today. And there it finally came - the main source of her anger. She said - "Ab tu itni sayani ho gayi hai ki apne se badon to sikhane lagi hai ki sahi kya hai or galat kya hai ? BhaiSa or Jiji ke laad pyaar ne tujhe sar par chadha diya hai !"


This (blue) is Gehna's main grouse. Being corrected by someone younger to her - not just this once but on way too many occasions and worst yet - being over-ruled in front of her own son, and at times her son preferring Anandi over herself - lunch/stories/homework etc. Gehna does not like Anandi's interference in her own sphere and she specially dislikes the fact that anandi is completely unchecked by Sumi or Bhairon.

In a reserved society - there r norms of behavior and one of those is - that a younger person does not get into a discussion when elders are already at it. I hv myself been told enough times - "badon ki baaton mein chhote nahi bolte". And I have often times wondered how she jumps so often into the middle of some discussions that DS is having with her sons or with the village elders and no one minds it.

Obviously Gehna is not.comfortable with constantly being side-lined by DS for being younger than Sumi, and being too often corrected by a much younger Anandi.

Gehna needs her own sphere of work where she can be the ruling authority. Am glad she realizes that this Haveli is not going to give it to her. Doubt she will let Nandu spoil like Jagya, she has always been shown to be sensible - but CV's have their own motives for suddently turning a perfectly fine character into grey.





I agree ... A is quite an opinionated person ... and too much of teacher ji ... but her decision on the issue is quite correct ... she was fair to both ... and B attitude towards his workers is so much like slavery ... so she was rite in correcting him ...
And Gehna was herself a very opinionated person , moreover a very stubborn person ... woh khud dadisa ke decisions n baaton par interfere karti thi and a hell loose rebellion she was ... now she is just getting a taste of her own medicine .. And she is just pure jealous that her son gives more importance to A then her... i have seen many women fretting over such emotions..
Isnt ? WDYT ?
Edited by parulwashere - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

monamie ,balika vadhu has also been dubbed in telugu -its called 'chinnari pellikuthru' ..even the dubbed version is very popular..

Really?😲..wow!..i didn't know itTongue..pardon my ignorance guys..😳
this is so gr8t!!..
Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

Really?😲..wow!..i didn't know it😛..pardon my ignorance guys..😳
this is so gr8t!!..

its fun to watch even in telugu,here a clip of the dubbed version😊
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5gIUSXWXL0[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by pjyo - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: parulwashere

I agree ... A is quite an opinionated person ... and too much of teacher ji ... but her decision on the issue is quite correct ... she was fair to both ... and B attitude towards his workers is so much like slavery ... so she was rite in correcting him ...
And Gehna was herself a very opinionated person , moreover a very stubborn person ... woh khud dadisa ke decisions n baaton par interfere karti thi and a hell loose rebellion she was ... now she is just getting a taste of her own medicine .. And she is just pure jealous that her son gives more importance to A then her... i have seen many women fretting over such emotions..
Isnt ? WDYT ?

True Parul - Gehna too is quite opinionated but I still think there is a difference.

Gehna went at loggerheads with DS and others over issues that directly concerned her or Nandu. She never jumped into any n everything that ever got discussed - like Anandi who has an opinion on everything under the Jaitser sky !!

And I completely think Basant needed to payback his salary - that was not right. The point is - IT IS HARD FOR SOME ELDERS TO LISTEN TO ADVICE FROM THEIR JUNIORS.
That is the root of Gehna's problem here. Gehna is considered young n inexperienced as compared to Sumitra hence has no defined responsibilty in the household. But by the same logic Anandi doesn't keep her advice to herself and freely advises a much more senior Gehna on how to raise Nandu !! I think Gehna just gave voice to her long simmering anger at Anandi and not really only at her judgement on that particular day. And that just proved to be the last straw to G - that's IMO 😳

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