DOno Gaye guzre trying to prove to each other - Page 2

Originally posted by: intruderfast

well i wouldnt but the point is being made she is using money from her bade papa so she is a bhikari

and who knows maybe her bade papa has allowed her to spend on some other things too

we dont know the real deal behind all this

she once mentioned she has an fd on her name , so who knows if its bade papa money or her parents or money from her stipends

Its about respecting the person who is giving you money and respecting the money and use it for absolute necessities. Please tell me if THE CAR is so so necessary for these two where they aren't really earning money!? You don't just think of the person who gives you money only when you are low on cash! You dont misuse the money and you dont disrespect the person by not letting him know that you skipped over a month of your studies to go yell at haveli...you don't even let the college know that you wont be there. So its all about respecting. Think of this...if you lent money to a friend who said he/she needs it for some medical reason and then you see that friend spending it for completely different...you wouldn't feel bad?

Getting a car because she's pregnant is a stupid idea, how they going to afford the car after the baby, babies cost a lot and plus Car expense is no joke either, petrol has gone up, then there is it's maintenance, insurance ,etc. Has Gauri even passed her driving test? Imagine Gauri and roadrage after an arguement with Jagya looks like they may be gearing up to a miscarriage then an abortion now.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

i dont buy that , that is completely her call and if her bade papa has no problem with her calling her late so whats the big deal here

i see whats going on , most here just wants to project gauri as a bad woman by hook or crook

so carry on👏i am sorry i lost my temper here cos this time it was too much, now i wont bother

First of all - G can't be termed as "home breaker"

She would have been a home breaker if she would have tried to impress Jagat in spite of knowing he is married.

But the case is JG got into a relationship without G knowing the truth.

If anyone is the home-breaker it's J himself!

What if G would not have married J? Would have J started loving A again? Would have J gone back to A ? NO

He would have been devdas for time being and again he would have found another city girl. Meanwhile, A would have been waiting for J and would not have thought about her own life.

In a way - G has done good to A by marrying J. The man who never loved A but only took her for granted to get help, has gone from her life!

If G would have enough sense to make J tell his parents before their marriage and if she would have consulted a lawyer to make the things legally, she would not have been in this messy relation.

As far as the bhikari term goes, Bade papa has helped G since her childhood. So, if she had not married J and refused him, would she have been a bhikari in the eyes of the audience even then?

G did inform Badepapa about her marriage - her parents wanted to consult bade papa before marriage but as G's father said he is abroad with his son. Basically CVs wanted to put an end of this character and hence he does not appear again.

So - just because G took money from Bade papa - it will be a harsh to call her bhikari. Bade papa loved her; G and her parents are also indebted to him and it has been reflected in many of the dialogues in the past.

J is bhikari because he has asked favor from the person whom he rejected in his life.

G might not have waited Badepapa to come from america for her marriage, but it does not mean she has rejected, humiliated or cut off her relation from him. Actually, we really don't know what's the status of badepapa - whether he regularly gives money, how much contact they have ; whether he is well enough or not - nothing is clear at this stage.

oh so sorry i guys it was a mistake i jumped into this topic

Originally posted by: intruderfast

gauri bhikaaari ,

my dad took money from his friends uncle to complete his education , so going by ur logic is he a bhikari too😕

as far as i know she has a realtion with her bade papa ,her bade papa never disowned her like in jagya's case so sorry cannot see ur point

yes jagya is that i completely agree with

Whether both are Bhikari or not...they take money from others...now what's right and whats wrong cannot be determined...

As long as someone is willingly giving the money and someone is taking it with no guilt conscience it is ok. Once you take a favor (especially for education) you are in their debt for ever and in future you make sure you take good care of them. With the rate these Dr. Couple are behaving I really doubt that. They are not able to take care of themselves.

Originally posted by: Snehabr

I seriously don't comprehend the purpose of these to characters in Balika Vadhu anymore... What are they exactly showing here?? Male ego, child marriage, illegal marriage, illegitimate child, horrendous mentor advice, adult education, education and city people are bad. Not sure what their focus is at all! The title doesn't match to what they are showing at all..and what they initially inteded to show... CVs have gone totally crazy...there is no story in this serial...its like they write scene by scene...and someone is yelling at someone all the time...🤢