A huge fault of Shipra in this whole thing too...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am reposting a topic that i had posted a while back... As i think Shipra is also hugely responsible for all that is happening...



Shipra was initially my opinion an ideal Saas.. and an inspiration for so many Mother in laws for the way she was treating her daughter in law..
Natasha, The high class society's working Bahu coming and staying in her middle class Family and still she felt more happy and comfy among them and felt the love which her mother also never gave, coming from her mother in law.. she was a Daughter in law who was soo soo scared that her Mother in law and other in laws would be depressed if they come to know she aborted the baby.. and was crying a lott coz she dint want to hurt them...

The same way, shipra was not getting tired of saying My Doll, Beta etc etc and so many such names to her daughter in law, so much so that at some points it irritated and angered her daughter to be felt as given lesser importance than Nuts..

Natasha's one outburst - on the day of going to friend's b'day party - was enough to turn them off.. so much that the same Shipra who was running behind nuts with Food, Love, Pride and Care - started taunting her on every single thing, including her working too.. She was the one who had no problem with Nuts working or she was the one who always understood the pressure of her work.. And suddenly from one fine day on, she started feeling that Nuts just wants to work and not care if there is a family or not etc and forcing her to go to a party.. if it was a big exam of any of their childre, wud they have forced them to go to the party?.. no.. then why her...
If Ayesha or Priya or Kartik wud have outbursted one day - wud they have treated them the same way - not forgetting the incidence and taunting them till they get super frustrated etc...


If Shipra had treated Natasha right, Nuts wud have never felt like plotting ways of going away from the family.. She used to love being there.. and started hating it only after Shipra started behaving bad.. It was natural for her to feel side-lined and hated in that house.. And natural to feel like finding ways of going away with her hubby from there.. i dont blame Nuts for being negative initially coz her mother was like that-- but she got a chance to stay with nice family and became positive -- so then her turning back to negative is all thanks to Shipra..

Shipra could have really become an ideal Mother in law and an inspiration for many viewers (Mother in laws) of how they can nicely take care of their working daughter in laws.. I used to love her character for that.. I thought BALH is spreading a good message by showing such a good MIL..
But thanks to Creative mind of creatives they Proved to all the Daughter in laws --- the thing they always believed --

" A mother in law will always remain a mother in law.. she can never never become your mother"

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Smile 843, great post. I agree that the CV s were portraying a good MiL but don't know what happened and came back to
" A mother in law will always remain a mother in law.. she can never never become your mother"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SriB

Smile 843, great post. I agree that the CV s were portraying a good MiL but don't know what happened and came back to
" A mother in law will always remain a mother in law.. she can never never become your mother"


I totally agree...but Natasha was not blessed with a good mother also...her mother was an Ogress in human form and is hell bent upon ruining her daughter's ( Natasha's life )...so Natasha spoiled her own life by not adjusting to her in-laws...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I completely agree with you. I think Natasha tried her best to adjust in that household.From a house where she had everything , she doesnt have t lift a finger to do anything to Kartik's house where they had bare minimum, I think she did really well. She always respected Shipra , always listened to her crazy talks. I think it was Ayesha who started the whole thing and started blackmailing her for her own benefits , she put the doubt in Shipra's head and tried to instigate Kartik. Ayesha was jealous because her own mother was giving more attention to nutz than her but the way Shipra reacted and left no chance to humiliate Nutz was the reason for all this mess. If we look at the way Priya talks to her MOm and the way she screams at her mom for what ever reasons, Shipra can hold grudge against her too but since she is her own daughter she doesnt feel bad about it.
I think they should atleast show Priya telling this to Ayesha and her mom too. Because right now they are showing that all this is Nuz fault alone which is not right. They all know from the very begining that Nutz is a spoiled brat...but used her for their own benefit.I am waiting to see Priya appologize to Nutz on her familys behalf.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well at one point, i had actually felt that i wish i get a caring n understandin mother in law like Shipra.. but nw, i really pray hard to not come across such mad pple in my close circuit...


I am waiting for a day wen shipra realizes hw wrong her attitude was, towards Nuts.. bt at the moment, i see no signs of regret in her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Aisha is responsible for all of this. She started spying on Natasha and blackmailing and complaing against her to turn her mother against Natasha.

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