Problems likely to be caused by Astha now

Hi All

I thought this was the right time to discuss about the problems and complications that Astha might cause to others when she finds out about Abhi, Simran, Sia relationship.

I would here list out the problem areas for Astha. She might find it very difficult to cope up with these situations.

1. She is very possessive about Simran. Though we see that she gets angry with Simran now and then, we also know that it she loves Simran heart of hearts. The very fact that Simran considers her as her life has made a place in her mind. Now, with the new turn where Simran has two other people to care to, share her love with, Astha might start feeling jealous. She might feel possessive about Simran. She might not know how to express it. This might lead to Astha starting to hate Simran.

2. Though Astha has a bonding with Simran, after knowing her true parentage, she longs for her mother Neha. This can be easily tracked as Astha keeps looking at the marriage photo of Abhi-Neha always. Now, the fact that her father Abhi was married to her mother Neha has made ground in her mind. Now, if at all, the story moves ahead with Simran, Abhi, Sia and Astha living under the same roof, Astha will have to digest Simran and Abhi sharing moments between themselves. So i defiintely think Astha will not take this sportingly. Instead, she might hate Simran for getting close with her father. She might ask her father Abhi not to be close with Simran. She might finally conclude that her mother Neha died just because of their relationship. If she develops such a thought , then things are just not a bed of roses for Abhi-Simran.

3. Above all, we now know that Sid really loves Sia. Astha has forcibly taken a promise from Sid that he will never allow Sia in his life. Now, if Sia is back in Simran's house, Sid will be overjoyed to know that she is the Astha who he knew from childhood. This might pull them closer. Sia might also start expressing feelings for Sid. So, this will be the factor which will make Astha go crazy and wild.

4. All the family members will shower love on Sia as they have got her after so many years. Even Simran and Abhi will probably take more care of Sia. This is obvious bcos they feel they have to minimise the longing feeling that Sia had for her parents. Simran and Abhi are very mature, they will definitely not neglect Astha just bcos they have got Sia. This is very clearly seen where Simran says i am happy to have got my family back, you, me, Astha and Sia. So she will be very sensible. But i really doubt whether Astha can understand this point. I think the more all show affection for Sia, the more Astha will get affected and will go into her own shell.

5. I think SAurabh will now be a trouble factor for Simran. Saurabh i think was forced to accept Astha as his grand daughter for Simran's sake. He knew Simran will be ok if she had a kid. So he accepted Astha. Saurabh tends to go on a wrong scale when he sees Astha getting wild. He always does not hesitate to point out Astha's real parentage. He says she is like her father always a happy go girl, wiithout responsibilities, running around, taking life as a joke. Now, when he has his own blood gran daughter Sia with him, i think he will be harsh on Astha. He will comment certain things which might hurt Astha. This might bring more hatred for all in Astha's mnid.

So these are a few points that came to my mind. If you all have any other thoughts on this, please feel free to write....

Sree

very good analysis sree.... infact i was also thinking of the same topic. i kind of pity aastha .... her immaturity level will cause a very big problem for her. because of this , she's going to end-up with no family at all. as sree has rightly pointed out, simran and abhi will never neglect aastha because of sia but they are definitely going to love both their daughters. now, abhi-simran are going to love sia and aastha equally but aastha will not be able to tolerate this... she will not want them to love sia too; aastha will want all their love for herself and this is going to cause seroius problems for her.

Hi Sree,

Is this a new topic for the coming week" Problems likely to be caused by Astha now"

Akshata

I agree with you Sree.. Every point you mentioned is very well explored..

I'd like to add a point about the relationship between Abhi & Astha.. I guess Astha will feel left alone again, because she'll realise that her father is back because he found his lost child, and not because of her.. So, she'll consider Sia as the person who has stolen her happieness of having her father back.. So, she was a strong reason to have her father back, but Sia is..

great points all of u ....

but what about the new mature abhi? how will he manage in these problems.....? any htoughts?

I agree with all ur facts Sree except for the first...coz i felt that Aastha after knowing tht simran isnt her mom and after speaking to radha...i dont think she has good opinion abt Simran...and tht she likes Simran...She will def hate it when sia enters the family....coz she wud def not like it

Yes, I agree with you Rak & Peacestead... Good point..

Originally posted by: rak201

why was Radhaji not allowed to meet Aastha ? Why did they lie to Aastha about Radhaji ? I do not blame Aastha getting mad at Simran - try to put yourself in her shoes and think what you would've done.

Simran is the mother of all problems - Aji Sinha got confused with her imagination. He wanted to show Simran as a matured, interlligent and a pillar of strength. However, some of the things she has done in the show are totally opposite to the character she is portraying.

Ajai Sinha definitely has some wild imagination - Justifying Sia's attraction to Abhi by saying that since she did not have a father, she got attracted to the first man she met. I could have bought this argument if she was being shown coming from the village of Ajai Sinha in Bihar where unmarried women cannot talk to men. Sia was being shown as brought up in London and to swallow that she did not have any man before Abhi that she could relate to is nothing bu NONSENSE.

Perfect ending would have been showing Abhi also getting attracted towards Sia and the commiting suicide for guilt after knowing Sia was his daughter. The man never felt guilty after after killing Neha and was almost ready for another marriage before reading Neha's dairy. A creative and intelligent Abhi (guru of relationships as a writer) could not see what was bothering Neha when she was having complications in her pregnancy. For God's sake, PLEASE END THIS NONSENSICAL COMEDY SERIAL ASAP - They do not need to drag it anymore now the family has reunited. Not many of us are interested in going through the pan of watchoing relationship of Sid, Astha and Sia.

I think they kept radha ji away because she was not very stable, she had some serious psychological issues and when Neha died she totally broke down and her thinking became all warped up and she blamed Simran for Neha's death which I find to be very unfair. Just to avoid confusion and turmoil in their lives i think they kept Radha ji away because she hates Simran with a passion and the stories she would have told Astha would have hurt Astha terribly as we see happening in the show rite now.Just because she THINKS Simran is horrible doesnt make her that and Radha ji needs serious help , she is hurting Astha alot , Neha cant be brought back and whatever happened is over and done with , why is she opening up new wound s for Astha, why could'nt she just tell her about Neha without poisoning Asthas mind?Simran has made mistakes but bringing up Astha with so much love inspite of having lost her own daughter is something great and very difficult to do for the average person.She developed a beautiful relationship with Astha and never let her feel once that she was not her real child, The very fact that for so many years Astha never even doubted for a second that simran was not her real mom tells us how lovingly and selflessly simran brought her up and for Radha ji to come and undermine all that is really bad. radha ji is a nut case and needs a psychiatrists help.

rak201 !! I totally agree with you......

Originally posted by: rak201

Radhiji became unstable after the loss of her only child - it was very natural. The best treatment for her was love and affection - Abhi (the biggest loser) ran away from home to live a recluse life. The family gave Gudiya (Astha) to Simran for her to overcome the loss of her only child. Did anyone ever think of Radhaji? Where was the need of bad mouthing Radhaji ? Did they ever bad mouth Abhi who was an escapist ?

Now Abhi is back after 18 years and everyone will be showering their love on him - IS this justified ? Didn't he do more harm than good by running away when he was required. If he was repenting, he could have shown taking care of Radhaji for rest of life. Sia was kidnapped, so she cannot have any grudges against Abhi. But what about Aastha - will she not be justied for hating her father? She did not have her father when she needed him.

Everyone is only talking about Sia not having her father and therefore she fell in love with Abhi because he was the first man she could relate to. What about Aastha - even she did not have her father. What wrong did she do by falling in love with Sid and gettting possessive about it.

I am pretty sure some of us will again compare Sia and Aastha concluding that Aastha as immature/ spoilt brat and Sia as a mature girl following footsteps of her mother. The next few episodes will be tough for Aastha not knowing how to react to the fact that now she has a father and a sister.

No Radha ji did not become unstable after Neha's death, if u watched the earlier shows then Radha ji was shown as having serious problems. She was dillusional and living in her own world, smoking a cig and thinking she was the same young actress from her yesteryears, Neha took care of her like u would take care of a child, it was with the help of Simran and Rashmi's husband that she recovered but still was always a border line case. when tragedies like this happen u find someone to blame it on and for Radha ji the perfect scapegoat was simran, Neha confided about her insecurities to her mom but her mom did'nt take them very seriously because at tha t point in time she had full respect and admiration for simran, Neha's death changed all that. Love is having faith and believing in the person u love, why could'nt Neha do that with abhay, I know Abhay had a horrible record sheet but at least she could have tried.Simran backed out many times and took good care of neha, i dont know why we cant appreciate what simran did for gudiya and even now she deals with radha ji with the utmost respect and radha ji is always bitchy, but i guess no matter what i write some people's minds are made and there's no changing that,