Saumya’s got secrets! - Page 2

Kyunki tum use itne achche se defend jo kar rahi ho 😃

Originally posted by: whynot

Kyunki tum use itne achche se defend jo kar rahi ho 😃

Okkkk that's why😉 .... see again love is indeed blind 😳..... don't you think I should work as a spokes person for Gaurav to shine his image😉?....

….and yes again I believe every word I said 😃 .... in general that goes for everyone😉.....

I feel Saumya is deep as a person. It s not easy to know such people . Do we know her ? May be she had some affairs before too... We can t say she is an angel just because she got this title of being conservative.
I have seen many strict conservative people are the biggest chhupa rustom in their love . Baar kuch hay aur andar kuchh aur , all double standard. 😡 😡 😡 .
Despite Gaurav is more open type of person and he is very hot so obviously girls get attracted by him 😳 . In today s society all the men have girlfriends, none of them are saint . I always consider a person who talks about his feelings openly is less dangerous then being a chhupa rustom type.

Originally posted by: shahnaz12

Okkkk that's why😉 .... see again love is indeed blind 😳..... don't you think I should work as a spokes person for Gaurav to shine his image😉?....

….and yes again I believe every word I said 😃 .... in general that goes for everyone😉.....

Well love isnt truly blind.... otherwise we wouldnt go on and on and on about Gaurav's looks, would we? 😉 😆

But yes thats a great idea.... you should consider this job.... who knows what bonds may develop while working 😉 😆 .... you can dust and scrub his life till his image is shining clean...

seriously speaking though, again agree with what you're saying. 😃

The point my dear friend is not whether its good to have relationships or not. I am saying if Gaurav has had affairs so its bad but I feel that one must not get publicity out of one's affair. If one respects scantitiy of relations he does not go on the National newspaper and say I am not marrying my ex gf and I am single ready to mingle like gaurav did.
I still would appreciate someone like Saumya would say its personal and I dont want to discuss it.
And not only this he gave a statement like people ask me whether I am marrying Saumya. Now this is clearly for getting publicity. Saumya on ther hand is mature and says that she has a professional relation with her coactor.
So its not about being conservative or not the point is how you value your relations.

Tara i see what you are saying and i understand what you mean. Yes using one's relationship to gain mileage at work is indeed low. But the point i was trying to make was this.... as an actor you get asked questions.... questions that you answer according to that specific moment.... a lot of things may influence your statements then... you may mean things differently from what they end up souding like.... what i was stressing is that we should try and avoid judging people by their interviews only. I mean a reporter may have asked "So are you seeing Saumya?" and to deflect it he may have said "Arrey yaar sab yahi kyun puchte ho" and then if the reporter translates that, it will come out as "Everyone asks me if i'm seeing Saumya" which sounds arrogant but may not have been meant as such.
And i thought the term "one night stand" person was harsh.... people are people, they cannot be put in categories of "one night stand" v/s "Eternally faithful".... you cant look at a person and draw conclusions about what they are like in their personal relationships... that is known only to the two people actually in that relationship.

Tara ... got your point 😃 .

He did say ... he had professional relationship with his co star Saumya many times 😊 ... when asked a specific question about marrying her ... he answered it that he is not 😊 . Why would Saumya say anything about marriage? ... she was not asked that question specifically 😕 .

I am not defending Gaurav in any way ... I am just saying people have different style to express themselves 😉 ... we do not have to like their style all the time ... but we have to be very careful judging someone from a couple of statements as we do not know for sure what's really going on in their private lives 😉 .

I would have just kept quiet as you are entitled to say whatever you like or dislike 😃 …. But qualifying him as a person who believes in "one night stand" … was just too much for me to keep quiet 😭. he does not deserve this type of name calling.

Yes you make sense.
And also that one must not judge a person like this.
But I still think that one must not talk about ex relations like this. Imagine how would Narayani would hav felt when she must have read Gaurav giving a statement like I would not marry her. And that he was single and ready to mingle.
Its not fair. I never said he is a one night stand person.But in relations one must respect one's Ex also.

And add to the fact that she never gave any satatement like this. Though she was also a party to the break up.
Just a thought.
Think about it.

Hey Tara yes i agree that Narayani has not been vocal about the break up and he has been. But then i haven't seen any interview of Narayani in a long long time.... usually, just when i've started to respect people for being quiet about their break up, they start to "reveal all".... so i guess i'll wait awhile before i come to any conclusion on this.
And yes i too noticed that you were not the person who used the term "one night stand person". And i completely agree with you that some things, especially relationships that have ended or might end, are best left private. that part of your post i'm not disagreeing with. 😊